Being in a similar position to that beautiful Emu - I'm unable to work due to chronic illness, and I'm jumping the hoops with Social Security Disability, which is playing it's normal games, so I have NO income.
I am grateful that I have a spoual unit ( unmarried live-in boyfriend) who takes care of me finanacially. I am on his medical insurance, and tax-wise I am a dependent so he gets a bit of a break. I don't buy clothes unless I absolutely need them. I do sew so I make my own. When I feel up to it. I get a new pair of New Balance orthopedic prescribed shoes every two years. My rare treat to myself is going out to McDonalds and buying a $1 double beef cheeseburger and a $1 soda.
I sold my pickup last year because I could no longer afford to keep it up, let alone reimburse Kev for the insurance or gas. That was the last of my personal independence. A very difficult thing for me to do, given my history with domestic violence and swinging the other direction of being an independent self-sustaining person. Very difficult.
Do you know how many ways you can make fried rice? Well, I'm learning. My contribution to our household is my cooking, and my being low maintenance.
My return is: I have a great guy who loves me and is willing to deal with my limitations. We often take 2 vacations a year - Hawaii, Mexico, or Van-camping. We are in the process of buying a house in Hawaii (when we get home from Hilo next week I'll write more about it.) for his retirement in 4 years.... I feel safe and secure - something unusual for me.
How else to reduce expenses: Plan your errands so that you're not running out to the grocery store for just one item. If you decide you do need that one item, do you really? Cut your electricity useage by making sure you turn off the lights when you leave the room. If you have split rate electrical, run the dishwasher after 11 pm, or handwash your dishes. Do your laundry with cold water.
This runaway economy in oil and housing prices is really bizaar. It will be itneresting to see if how when the dust settles.
Hugs to y'all
Bren