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tsunami_rid3r

oh my god, i'm back into the groove again. back when i first made the move to get out of this religion, i was partying with this girl from work, but then i fuked it up. second semester i made lots of friends but they really chirstian, but still fun with going to concerts and all. but i haven't drank in a long ass time because they dont really drink or smoke.

last night i went clubbin with these 2 chicks, and there was lots of girls and drinkin. and i met a lot of chicks and dudes from school. man it was nice. it was sooo fukin fun. and then this other chick from work sends me a text about a little party that was going on. i tried to call her but no answer. oh well, i had to be at home at anyway, it was 3 am. still, the parents seemed like they really didn't care.

my observation, there was a lot of dudes at the club. i got a few rejections, hmm i think i don't know how to approach a girl at a club dance floor. i mean this one chick was just standing there and i walked up and grab her side for a dance, but she just pushed me away. lol. this other dude saw me, i guess, shook my hand like nice try. still i danced with a few girls.

but WHAT is the best approach to dancing with a girl?

this is great practice for taking rejections though. hm i notice a lot of guys and girls were real touchy. i tried to be touchy feely but its tough for me. am i just a pussy or what?

damselfly

but WHAT is the best approach to dancing with a girl?

Ask before you touch comes to mind. There is nothing worse then being in a club and being felt up on the dance floor in all different directions. If you've got your eye on a girl ask if you can buy her a drink, that usually worked for me!

Damselfly

carla

Instead of tying to be somebody you are not, why don't you just ask a girl to dance? She might think you are not like all the other dweebs on the dance floor and actually want to see you again. If some guy had tried to grab me by the side when I was 18 or so he might have found himself with a fat lip or something! You can't just go grabbing girls no matter what the 'others' are doing. Besides her boyfriend may be on his way back from the bathroom or something and you could find yourself in some real trouble. Lay back a little, if your drinking alot it will be difficult to tell who really does like you, even yourself. carla

Mutz

but WHAT is the best approach to dancing with a girl?

Can't help you there, a naked man in nettle patch moves with more style than I do on a dance floor. :)

tsunami_rid3r

hm ok, it was loud, so i didn't no if anyone could here me. but yea that makes since. asking them for a dance first. lol. wow i'm an idiot. but c'mon it was my first time!

damselfly

You're not idiot Tsu! You're just young and eagar to start living. If it is to loud to talk you can always make eye contact with the girl and smile, usually if she smiles back it's ok to start dancing.

I'm glad you're having fun!

Damselfly

crazyblondeb

What damselfly said is right!! But for me, a few beers and several shots of tequilia always helped!!

shelley

trevor

but WHAT is the best approach to dancing with a girl?

If you let her know you like her and find her attractive she will ask you. Women are like cats, they will come to you if they want to and feel comfortable with you, you can't make them. Any sudden moves and they are gone.

rebel8

The best lesson I can think of to tell you how to act in clubs is to watch the old Saturday Night Lives with those 2 club guys dancing to '80s music. Don't do anything they do! (This came to mind because their m.o. was to sidle up to unsuspecting women and do pelvic thrusting dances. They used to get slapped all the time. This is NOT unlike what some men actually do in bars.)

tsunami_rid3r

hmmmmm...i saw lots of dudes doing that...so i copied. but i soooo thought about that skit. and the night at the roxbury. lol. omg.

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