You Can Tell, Can't You?

prophecor

Women, you seem to always be able to admit that you can spot an attractive woman and be OK with it. No need of having any fear of homosexual tendencies, not that there's anything wrong with it...but guys, will you ever admit that you can look at another man and know that he's attractive and good looking, with no fear within your inner being that you may be gay?

I was in converse with my wife and mentioned to her how attracted men are to other women. How it was I could recognise a woman as attractive, looking a lot like my wife. I mentioned it as something that we all are born with, we look because we are naturally attracted to some people. She rails about how we men look at other women, I ask " you women don't look ? " she says ' Hell NO!!! "

I say, "you're a liar, all women look. I can see an attractive man recognise that he's fine, and I am a man without a gay bone in my body, what make you think that you women don't look with even more intent ? "

So for fear of upsetting the all too manly crowd, here, can any man admit when another man is handsome, dashing or attractive, without upsetting your male egos, or am I one of an elite few. Come on, You can tell, can't you?

tetrapod.sapien

So for fear of upsetting the all too manly crowd, here, can any man admit when another man is handsome, dashing or attractive, without upsetting your male egos, or am I one of an elite few. Come on, You can tell, can't you?

oh for sure. some "guy guys" don't get it, but it's probably because they are nor comfortable with their sexuality. i can look at another guy and say "damn", out loud, knowing full well that at the end of the day that it's a female that get's it up for me. and so, what's the big deal?

misspeaches

My boyfriend notices when another guy is good looking and will comment upon it.

He doesn't have any gay tendencies at all he just appreciates an attractive looking man or woman.

In fact he will sometimes ask me if I think they are good looking too. If I disagree with him he will disagree with me saying stuff like 'how can you not appreciate they are good looking' etc.

It doesn't bother me in the slightest either because I am the same with both men or women.

kls

She rails about how we men look at other women, I ask " you women don't look ? " she says ' Hell NO!!!

And she is a lying pooper and drool is running down her face when Mr , Hot Damn walks by

We look high we look low and where ours eyes stop she only knows

whyamihere

You see it but you keep it to yourself. I think as humans you notice other people. Male or Female!

Guys I am sorry just admit it. I lived with 4 brothers so I know a little. Its not you find them Hot and Sexy like you find women.(speaking in a Straight manner) I know you see them and yes if they happen to be better looking the real issue is"Can you beat them Up?" "Can you bench more?"

Brooke

p.s.....I look at other women what I have to say is...I am not telling you anymore.

GetBusyLiving

I can tell if a guy is good looking. It's not a big deal at all. I used to get flak from some of my old hopeless redneck f*ck-face dub "friends" when I would complement guys on the way they dress, look build-wise ect.. I'm straight too and I think some witlesses thought I had "tendencies" because of some of my comments, lol. Whatever.

GBL

cab1000

I agree with you. As a male, I can tell another male that he is handsom. Complete strangers even. In fact, I asked a salesman once if he was a model, and then told him he should be....

BTW, Not gay here...

~cab

fleaman uk

yeah i dont have a problem with that.I recognise that my best mate is very good looking.We both used to go clubbing and in London,the best clubs are definitely gay imo.Best music,no aggro,no need to pout and pose for the opposite sex (being hetero entirely).Anyway i suppose we are both a couple of pretty boys so got hit on a fair bit and i have to say i found it quite ego boosting when being bought a Drink by a good looking Gay guy....

..i didnt fancy him,but appreciated the fact that a good looking Person saw fit to chat me up and buy me a Beer.....

simplesally

Well, I heard Sixy say that a lot of the apostate men around are damn fine. He's not gay, right?

jgnat

Hey, I've been accused of "ewwwww too much attention" too. I am an artist, and I notice beauty. I comment on it, male or female. When my twiggy daughter had her first child, it did wonderful things for her curves in all the right places. When I mentioned it, I got a major creep-out slap-down.

"Ewwww! Moms aren't supposed to notice those things!"

My hubby picked up on this early in our dating experience, too, and did a serious double-take. Well, I had quickly figured out what his standard of beauty was, and when I saw a curvaceous beauty, I pointed her out. His eyes popped out of his head (from the studious front-forward position) and said,

"I am going to have to be careful around you!"

I figure, if he knows I'm looking and seeing what he is seeing, he WILL have to be more careful. A good friend had her hair styled straight. I couldn't take my eyes off it, what it did to frame her face, the way the hair moved.... so I commented on it.

"This from a woman who didn't notice for THREE MONTHS that I changed my glasses?"

"What can I say?" I replied "I notice beauty. When you get my attention, you have all of it."

You Can Tell, Can't You?

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