Thanks, xjwms. I am amazed how much we know on JWD before the average rank and file JW.
HB,
I understand. I know not everyone on JWD reads my reviews, some find it stirs up bad, old thoughts, others have no need for the information. Pick and choose. Love, Blondie
Carla,
thanks. Your encouragement is appreciated.
If JWs really felt this way, you couldn't keep them away from the doors. But they have been drilled weekly that non-JWs are bad association, profligate sinners, who are doomed, only a few who will every listen; that even if not a single person becomes a JW because of their "preaching," they will still get life everlasting on a paradise earth.
Never thought about it that way, Blondie, but you are right on. This explains why there's such a disconnect between the admonition from the platform and writings and the field service attitude/behavior of the average dub. One suspects the WTS writers know that, which means their real motivation is to portray dubs as "witnesses" when in fact they are largely bystanders. Perhaps thats why they can say, with a straight face, that JWs are "known" for bringing the good news of God's kingdom to people's doors when, in fact, the average householder knows nothing of the sort. The WT study is nothing more than cognitive dissonance on display.
Willyloman, I have thought this for years as I went door to door with many JWs wondering why they were doing it if they thought no one would listen, a self-fulfilling prophecy; hearing them say after a lackluster morning, "well, even if they don’t listen, I will still get everlasting life. No one listened to Jeremiah." The average person does not connect the good news of the kingdom with the JWs coming to his door, only pesty people selling magazines.
Thanks, u/d
(of the can't believe I swallowed that crap for so long class)
ditto
Thanks, stevenyc
http://www.tvsurveys.com/billofrites/balance.htm
Having Too Much Negative Is Frightening & Depressing to Watch
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We begin to feel frightened, and it really isn't as bad as they make it out to be
...It's too much violence...It's nice to hear something good, like an achievement. Or, because they've always done these stories on the bad part of welfare, report stories on people who've pulled themselves up out of it...Most of it is accidents or homicides...Have some stuff that isn't all crime related...After you get done watching news, you're thoroughly depressed...You almost don't wanna turn the news on, because it's all negative...If all we see is negative, it's gonna start our day off wrong, and we're gonna feel bad...We all need encouragement, and it's very depressing to watch nothing but negative news...We had a shooting on this street, then they tell you about a rape, and then a woman was carjacked, and they threw her out of the car, and the baby was in the car with the kidnappers, etc. You hear all that, and say `My God, I'm afraid to go outside!'...Probably the reason I don't watch the news on a regular basis is because I know the entire half-hour or hour I'm gonna be watching is just all bad news, bad news, bad news. It's all necessary to know, but it's little overwhelming."Good point; not sure about a quote from a fiction book though.
The WTS is notorious for not telling the whole story as shown above.
I wonder why they can’t give the source; what are they afraid of?
Thanks, Rex. Detailed, thorough, don’t I wish; just the "highlights."
Good point, jgnat.
The constant, grinding message on the terrible state of the world is one of my major pet peeves about the Witnesses. Evangelicals are guilty of this too. It is as if they think they can hurry along Armageddon by eagerly seeking out evidence that the world is worse. I think it has a detrimental effect on the JW's psyche. I see little energy or motivation to improve their lives. After all, they can wait for Paradise.
It is surprising since they are told they will have to work hard to improve their lives in the "new system," that it won’t be handed to them on a silver platter. They do it now at the KH, letting a few individual JWs do all the work. The Henny Penny effect.
Glad to be of help, kazar.
I need information such as this to prevent my mind from becoming confused and wanting to go back to the Witnesses. I have to keep the information that I am finding out now on this forum close to me to stop myself from doing something as stupid as that.
We were and some still are being abused spiritually by the WTS. We see some women go back to their abusers and the same phenomenon occurs with ex-JWs. Some of the same reasons they do, apply to people who go back to the WTS. Convince yourself that they are not the only true religion and do not speak for God and that they do not have the right to judge who will live or die.
Books to try
Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1556611609/102-3871540-7022500?v=glance
Combatting Mind Control
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0892813113/102-3871540-7022500?v=glance
Hi, Gopher (is that baby running yet?)
Secondly, how can they prove that EVERY Christian is supposed to be a preacher, teacher and evangelizer? They can try to use Matthew 24:14 and Matthew 28:19, but an impartial reading shows that those are prophecies that would apply to a group rather than commands that would apply to individuals. Didn't the apostle Paul write that among Christians there would be "SOME who are teachers, SOME who are evangelizers," etc.?
Good point. Weren’t some supposed to be apostles and prophets? I wonder who the apostles are? The LDS has apostles.
Thanks GGG,
This is only the second week I've read your "Comments"..... but I'm thoroughly impressed !! Your post had me laughing, and shaking my head in disgust... So many of your conclusions are the same types of things that would go through my head every time I was at a meeting or read any JW literature.... YUCK!!! I haven't read a WT in a year, I had forgotton how horrible they make me feel..... It's like nails on a chalkboard...
Yes, I do tend to appeal to many who are just leaving the WTS. It makes you wonder how many other JWs are out in the audience thinking the same things. My reviews started out when I was still attending meetings but not yet on JWD. When I started reading posts on JWD, I realized that these comments I wrote down could resonate with other posters. It was my way to maintain some sanity while I was still going, before I realized that I could stop going and it didn’t mean I had "left God."
Welcome to JWD.
Thanks, Zeke, for your support and "highlighting."
I "get more out of the WT study" from your study then any highlighter I ever used.
Me too, though I still highlight but I highlight different things than when I "studied" the WT.
Hey, Blueblades
Right now they need to put a fire under the rank and file to get out there and keep preaching and preaching and preaching and preaching things are sooo baddd, not to worry Jehovah's Kingdom is coming, yeah baby, that's what we are announcing, don't you get it, huh! huh! huh! huh!Hey where is the nearest coffee shop?
Good summary of day "in service."
Sydlik, I met that man too. He tends to be a "rebel" behind the scenes but when push comes to shove, he reverts back to a company man. He doesn’t want to be the second "Ray Franz."
Great comments, everyone, Blondie