I filed away the letter that I received from an elder when my mom was disfellowshipped years ago. It turned up the other day, reminding me again of the high control, fear based beliefs the dubs have. I resisted shunning my mom -- and sadly this letter is the reason I finally began shunning her.
Happily, this letter holds no power over me today. A big change from those years ago when I lived in terror of this so-called "loving" elder.
I am now happily disfelowshipped.
Anyone care to read?
Love and Light,
ESTEE
Hope this works ...