Now that you are no longer a witness, whether you are d/a d/f faded/inactive,
What is the one thing you will not do?
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BlackSwan
by BlackSwan of Memphis 15 Replies latest jw friends
Now that you are no longer a witness, whether you are d/a d/f faded/inactive,
What is the one thing you will not do?
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BlackSwan
Lie, cheat, steal and judging others unfairly are still big no--no's.
Dams
Lie, cheat, steal and judging others unfairly are still big no--no's.
These are pretty big for me as well.
I feel that I'm MORE moral since I've left. Shunning my loved ones, Beating my kids, covering up for child molesters, hoping for the death of 6 billion non witnesses, looking down my nose at everyone else, smug self satisfaction in my beliefs, those are all HUGE no-no's in my life now. Nope, I won't do those.
I will no longer attempt to turn every conversation into a "witness".
I remember the last time I was out in service, I found a woman at home and we had a really interesting conversation. Her beliefs were basically agnostic and I can honestly say, I had an incredibly smug attitude with her. Funny thing is now, that belief that I thought was so sad, now....I understand quite well.
I used to think, that I would Never leave the wonderful org. I would never be an apostate. I would never walk away from Jehovah etc.
Now, I will not say never.
Think I am better than people and have pity for people just because the believe differently.
I will try not do everything I did as a witnoid.
I will not maka a definitive statement about belief ever again
I no longer get stomach aches on Tuesdays, Thursdays and Sundays.
Kwin