Fleaman, hon, I know there are worse things happening in the world, but in YOUR world this is devastating! And I'm so very sorry for your pain. It will pass. But dammit, it takes time.
Hang tight, hon
Brenda
how to deal with a break up.please help?
by fleaman uk 60 Replies latest jw experiences
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delilah
(((((((((((((((Fleaman))))))))))))))).....hang in there. Breaking up with someone you love, is never easy. It hurts real bad too. You've been given loads of excellent advice from your friends here...we all care about your well-being. Day at a time friend. It does get better.....
Delilah
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ColdRedRain
Hit the bar scene and meet new people and just have fun. You're single. Live it up.
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avishai
check in and let us know how you are...(well, we know,, but we wanna know where youre at!)
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LittleToe
How's the hangover, this morning?
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DelTheFunkyHomosapien
As hard as it is now avoid the rebound and resist making contact, especially when pissed.
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PaulJ
Ive had similar feelings before and the whole world seems black. All i want to say is it will get better and you will find someone else (even tho thats prob not the way you are thinking). Is it definitely over? Is there any chance of it re igniting?
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tijkmo
o man...so many memories...i still get that sinking feeling just reading about it
but at least you got friends and family around you...and that will help..i had to do it with no-one...but i did it...and so can you...and i did it without drink drugs or promiscuity
i did it with sad music...plus i had the ability to write about it
but take my word for it.....TIME DOES NOT HEAL...TIME CHANGES NOTHING...
what i mean by that is time in itself does not possess any magical power...you have to use the time to do something..do something new..put more energy into what you are already doing..and dont turn down any invitations to do things even if they are not things you would normally do or with people you would normally do them with--you dont know where they will lead
and even though you dont think at this moment that you will never love again...dont believe it...you got 10 years on me..and even in my darkest moments i refused to believe that..
there will be people who will help you on the way...but try not to just use people...you wont think much of yourself if you do..and it wont help anyway
here is a list of sad songs to get you through
lucie silvas...dont look back
marillion....beyond you
....kayliegh
....now she'll never know
barbara striesand...with one more look at you
sting...inside
counting crows...black and blue
coldplay....everythings not lost
eagles ...wasted time
kate bush....you're the one
tijkmo......bewildered...(have i sent you that one)...these are the lyrics
BEWILDERED
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tijkmo
JUST WHEN YOU THOUGHT IT COULDN’T GET ANY WORSE
SOMETHING UNEXPECTED HITS YOU AGAIN
AND LOVE IS A BLESSING AND LOVE IS A CURSE
AND SOMETIMES YOU KNOW IT’S HARD TO TELL WHEN
AND LOVE CAN MAKE YOU WEAK
AND LOVE CAN MAKE YOU STRONG
AND LOVE CAN SERVE YOU RIGHT
AND LOVE CAN DO YOU WRONG
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tijkmo
AND IT’S THE FEAR OF WHAT COMES AFTER THE DOING
THAT MAKES THE DOING SO HARD TO DO
AND YET THE MAGIC OF FACING THE ENSUING
IS THAT ALMOST ALWAYS WE CAN PULL THROUGH