sex advice please (page 2)

Seeker

Women actually test men this way at times? How utterly appalling! I would leave any women who lied to me that way. Say what you mean, don't hide behind traps.

outcast

I think it's the reverse psychology thing. Works well, like,
" I never want to be married, and I definately don't want a big diamond ring".

Billygoat

" I never want to be married, and I definately don't want a big diamond ring".

Hahaha! I know of many women that have said that and then get pissed when the ring really isn't that big. Sadly too true!

Billygoat

Shaneliza

I agree with the others..I think she may have had an affair and now is trying to calm her guilty conscience. I suggest you have a sit down with her and find out what is REALLY going on.

BoozeRunner

Definitely a test. Or she is already guilty of infidelity.
Either way, dont fall for it.

Boozy

SixofNine

I'll take a slightly different view from the others and say I think that in this modern world, there is a chance that she is being completely straightforward. About a 1% chance.

Not very good odds for your relationship. I'd suggest a lot of talk with her about this subject, and zero action .

I did have a long chat with my girlfriend today. She does not think it is unfaithfulness for me, she thinks it is unfaithfulness for her. Yeah! She says it's definitely not a test, which mostly nakes sense as I'm not a womaniser. We ended the chat with her saying "have a good night out and enjoy yourself, don't do anything I wouldn't" - whaaa?

I don't think I should 'keep you all posted' about my adventures, but the temptation is there the same. I have always thought I was a faithful man, now I am wondering if I am, or if there is such a thing as a deep-down faithful man.

hulphi

friendorfoe

If things don't out between you to can I have her phone number.
LOL

philo

Your girl seems HOT baby, HOTTTT.

This apparently unequal relationship is probably as old love itself, but people just don't talk about it because it is so challenging to accepted mores.

Also, I think she either has loads of self-esteem and trust in you, or else she has none, and wants to hang on to you by offering this too-good-to-be-true arrangement.

Best of luck fella.

philo

hulphi

I just want to add this bit. I am confidant that she is'nt unfaithful to me, and I'm almost as confident that she has always been (for the 3years). And because we have history togather now, I don't want to go down the route of lying by saying "I'd never sleep with another woman" when in truth I am thinking about it. I also am certain that I would never leave her on account of some great sex, so as long as I love her I could never love anyone else as much.

I really love her so much, but it's weird, because she told me all this when we first got together, I just didn't believe her. I guess it was just too much to believe.

hulphi

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