I have joined ex gay seminar

by joelbear 40 Replies latest jw friends

  • steve2
    steve2

    If only sexual orientation was a matter of choice! I can see it now: "Today I'm feeling a bit jaded and want a change. I think I will choose to lust after women."

    It's funny how some people out there still imply that sexual orientation is as simple as a choice. Yet if you said to a straight man, "So, if you chose, you could feel sexually attracted to another man, could you?" he would probably fly into a very defensive posture, if not hit you for implying his "manliness" is as paper-thin as a choice.

    It reminds me of a joke I once read:

    Bill: "I've just been to a ex-gay convention. I've never seen so many hot and horny guys all in the same room struggling to overcome their sexual desire for one another!"

    Ben: "An ex-gay convention filled with hot and horny men?! Doesn't sound like it was very successful then, does it?"

    Bill: "I beg to differ. It was very successful: I've never had so many lays in all my life!"

  • Jordan
    Jordan

    When I was younger, I honestly thought I was gay, I even began to accept it, contemplated coming out to family and friends, but I realised, I'm not actually attracted to men. I like a woman, I like breasts, and I like a woman's femininity. Question do other guys go through a similar phase, or is it just me?

  • Joel Wideman
    Joel Wideman

    The teenage years are a time for discovering sexual identity. This can become more confusing if the teenager is influenced to believe that their natural sexual urges are wrong. Although I never thought I was gay, I did indeed go through a difficult time regarding sex.

  • ashitaka
    ashitaka

    Very funny JB. Message me if you need to. Talk soon buddy.

  • Satanus
    Satanus

    I spent most of my sex life w porn and masturbation. For quite a while, i wondered if i would even be able to do the deed. That was because of all the wt horror stories about masturbation. Thank aphrodite that i'm not worried anymore

    S

  • LDH
    LDH

    Hi there Joelbear.

    Good to see you!

  • Tigerman
    Tigerman

    Good for you, joelbear. Hang in there, brother.

  • LDH
    LDH

    Hi Joel, nice to see you!

  • joelbear
    joelbear

    breasts i think are the key, i used to stare at Penthouse and Playboy and try to will myself to get aroused. i thought my brains were gonna come out my nose i was concentrating so hard.

    but then bonanza would come on TV and Hoss would walk across the screen and BOING!

  • Billygoat
    Billygoat

    LOL@Joel - you are too much my friend! You always make me laugh! ((((hugs))))

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