as a kid they all seemed rather super human to me, I would have killed to have know back then how they supposed Jehoba came to them in their dream...would still like to know how they justify it, all very bizarro.
one older woman (middle-aged when I was growing up) was the ultimate example in the congregation, so much so that no poor lay sister could live up to her...I found out just last year that she had been recently disfellowshipped for taking up with a "worldly" man and committing the unthinkable! How tragic, that she lived all those years alone trying to live up to an impossible expectation, and setting an example that made others feel inferior, only to be publicly shamed in such a way. Oh well, these are the choices we make...frog x