Wow, great story... welcome to the site (again)! Will be glad to be your friend =)
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Introducing myself! Come say hi!
by Sparlocks_Apprentice inhello all you wonderful people on the "evil" interwebs.
i'm joining this site once again because i forgot my old username and such.
i like the new layout!.
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new annual text for 2016.
by janusfulcrum inmake them work harder and keep them busy so that they may not pay attention to lies.. ex 5:9 .
whaddaya all think?.
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1 Cor 14: 34
"Let the women keep silent in the congregations, for it is not permitted for them to speak"
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My Mission is over!
by abiather inwhen i understood, jws are wrong in some vital areas [eg.
woman being viewed secondary, refusal to greet those differing with them ....], but right in other vital areas [such as their teaching that human rule is doomed, and will be replaced by gods rule], i began a diligent search for the right organization.
my search ended with brahmakumaris.
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Your body of elders - were they liberal, conservative or moderate?
by minimus inin my first kingdom hall, the elders were ultra conservative.
our presiding overseer used to be a zone overseer.
the second hall i was in was moderate.
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Many of the elders in my cong are judgemental, with one them in particular being an exceptional hard-assed self-righteous prick. So glad to be fading! -
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JW Children - We're normal, and have fun at conventions, etc.
by berrygerry inwas reading a poster's experience with custody, and the info in wts child custody packet.. children are prepped to present themselves as normal, with school friendships, hobbies, activities, etc.
and not to mention that their life-goal is to pioneer.. the school brochure (1983) contains this gem:.
"they [witness families] also travel several times each year to attend larger gatherings called circuit assemblies and district conventions.
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Witness children are normal??? That's far from the truth!!! I am in a good position to say this as I was one of them!
Based on my experience as a witness kid who was brought up "in the truth" by "spiritually zealous" parents, I can testify to how absurd that statement is. I grew up with no real friends due to a lack of young people in my cong. When I was a teenager / young adult, the constant harping on how we need to "do more" & "slave for Jehovah" and my not being able to meet all these requirements to the satisfaction of the elders (who made it almost impossible to attain "privileges" in the cong) left me with a drastic lack of self-esteem & self-confidence. The constant judging by certain self-righteous ones caused me even more misery. Furthermore, the strict admonition to "marry only in the Lord" contrasted with my NOT being able to find a single compatible person in the truth contributed to my despair. At the same time, I was not doing well in my career - how could I when I was demotivated & facing all these problems??
Contrast this to my current situation. I am fading, with sporadic meeting attendance & total non-participation in field service. As a result, my career has greatly improved - why? Because I am more motivated & focused and am able to devote more time & energy to fulfilling work rather than to "spiritual activities" which leave me tired & drained rather than refreshed. Am so glad that I have liberated myself from that dreary & tiresome "spiritual routine". Most importantly, I have a "worldly" girlfriend, who I deeply love & adore. I now have a greater passion for life, and my self-confidence & self-esteem have increased by leaps & bounds. This is what I call a normal life, not the life I left behind!
My life would have been a total disaster, had I not awoken & made a drastic change for the better. I really hope witness kids would wake up & see "the truth" for what it is. A miserable way of life which is wholly absurd & abnormal
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How many were baptized in your area, last assembly?
by brandnew inhow many were baptized in your area, last assembly?.
santa paula, ca..........17..
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My best friend - Helping him wake up?
by Garrett inso, first off, after my learning ttatt i've been feeling so much better!
my depression is gone, i'm so much more motivated, i can do everything i've always wanted to do but was forbidden from doing.
now, my best friend is still in, however, i feel that he may have a chance at waking up.
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DON'T tell them you are an "apostate". Just fade quietly -
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Type CHARITABLE GIVING into the JW.org search engine and guess what you find?
by Zoos ina long list of articles detailing how you can give money to them.. not a single mention of feeding, clothing or sheltering the poor, but an in depth discussion of how you can donate money, jewelry, property, both while you are living and after you are dead.. charitable giving - what a loving arrangement..
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Well, take a look at pages 4 & 5 of the WT being considered this month (Dec '14 WT). There it is yet again!
Charitable giving = give to us. Yeah right!
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Zeb, it's a satrical question. Who would be so stupid as to... oh wait... JW's......
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At the meeting ... Ugh
by cappytan inat least i have this forum.
is there a shorthand for referring to this website?
saying jehovahs-witness.com seems like a long winded way..
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Cappy, u don't have to reduce ur commenting. In fact, it would be great if you could find opportunities to give some thought-provoking comments that might help others to open their eyes