Posts by stuckinarut2

Rejoining a cult will NOT help you! It will simply seem to provide a measure of stability and structure for your life, along with a comforting hope. But that is it.

You will become burdened with a new set of issues as you strive to meet up with all the expectations placed on you.

You will become burdened with FOG (Fear Obligation Guilt)

May I suggest that if you feel like your life is lacking guidance or structure, seek professional mental health assistance. Many here have done so, and it will help you to regain control over your life, and answers as to the "lost" feelings you are experiencing.

Love and Best wishes!

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New Watchtower - Can You Look Beyond Outward Appearances?

by ttdtt in

how ironic that they have asked jws to not look past - tight pants - so called "affectations" - beards - long hair - short hair - and like 1000 other meaningless and trivial things.. https://www.jw.org/en/publications/magazines/watchtower-study-june-2017/can-you-look-beyond-outward-appearances/.

stuckinarut2

Hypocrisy at its finest!

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No more official visits to disfellowshipped & disassociated ones

by AverageJoe1 in

new letter today (please visit avoidjw.org for a copy of the official letter and yes, i also noticed they got the date wrong!).

february 28, 2017. to all bodies of elders.

re: visiting disfellowshipped or disassociated individuals.

stuckinarut2

WOW!

This is a HUGE about-face move!

Combine this with the implied negative comments about "kevin" from the bunker videos at last years convention, and we have the makings of a cult in damage control!

They don't want anyone still in to have opportunity for those that have awoken to influence others!

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Endure or Enjoy??

by stuckinarut2 in

have we ever noticed how witnesses are constantly being told that life is something that needs to be "endured", rather that "enjoyed"?.

life is always so tough, so hard, so difficult in "these last days".

"persecution and trials abound".

stuckinarut2

So I was just talking with my father who is still very much "in". He was speaking of how "tough things are getting in this system"

Then he was speaking of a friend of his, a witness "brother". This "brother's" wife is not a witness, and my father says "But she is nice though".

I pulled him up and said "why wouldn't she be nice? Why did you draw that negative conclusion that because she was not a witness, that she might not be a "Nice" person!

Mind boggling!

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Presentation by Paul Grundy (JW Facts)

by Listener in

i came across this recent down to earth presentation given by paul grundy.

it's very long but provides a good overview of the jw religion and its dark side.

it was hosted by "sydney atheists" so may not be an ideal link to send to jws.

stuckinarut2

We were in attendance!

It was a great evening, with between 40-60 there I reckon.

A great mix of people, both ex witnesses and general public. It was a very cathartic opportunity. A chance to see how those in attendance who were never witnesses responded to the strangeness of what life was like for those of us raised as witnesses!

Paul did a very good job, both during his speech and afterward as the large group mingled and chatted.

In fact, the conversations amongst all afterward went on for quite some time... they almost had to kick everyone out!

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Sister at Kingdom Hall visibly upset "they took jehovahs name out of song"

by hoser in

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friends

i went to meeting today and the sister in front of me was upset song 134 now song 139 no longer contains jehovahs name.

they took it out.

i never even noticed .

stuckinarut2

Now that is interesting!

There is no logical reason why they would REMOVE the name...