Well played!
Yes, they are the ones who looked and acted like fools.
We all feel sorry for those who choose to give over their natural human affection to the dictates of a bunch of men who they don't even know in person! (didn't the bible say that the last days would be marked by those with "no natural affection"??)
Yes, they will shun their own family because some guys they don't even know tell them to...