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  WT rules about forgiving a cheating mate

  by Addison0998 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i hate the rule about if your mate cheats on you, and you have sex with them, you are not free to remarry because the sex means you forgave them and keeps you stuck with them!

  i personally disagree and think it’s so controlling that they think they can dictate what goes on behind closed doors between two consenting, legally married married people.

  and that they think they have the right to label what other people’s sex means.

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  Ah yes...and it takes three men to tell the "aggrieved party" whether they can be free or not....
  
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  Let's talk business ...

  by dubstepped in

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  2. friends

  i am thinking that this could be an interesting topic.

  most of us never had a chance to go to college, many of us were involved in various service industries like cleaning and such, and we have had some limitations placed on us.

  so i thought it might be interested to see what has worked for people, what hasn't, what the progression has been, where people went wrong and where they got it right.

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  Great thread Dubstepped!

  Yes, the missed opportunities is a big issue for many of us. What COULD we have been if higher education wasn't condemned?? What if....

  I had a similar path as you. Because of "putting the kingdom and theocratic things first", I didn't go past high school.

  I would have LOVED to go into marketing or advertising!

  I would have LOVED to have become an architect - designing houses and buildings!

  Instead, I cleaned windows, did basic sales jobs etc.

  OK, so I have done ok out of it to be honest. I have had the gift of being able to speak with people, and provide good customer service. I started a business 15 years back that has done well enough for us to live adequately. So I am not bemoaning my lot in life. BUT - rather than being in control and pursuing a career that I REALLY wanted, I had to settle for one that "pays the bills"
  
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  Dating as a Jehovahs witness has made me PIMO

  by Addison0998 in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  hey, i would like to share my experience, it is kind of long but i really appreciate whoever reads.

  last year i was a devout pioneer sister.

  well, i am naturally an imperfect 20 year old women.

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  Oh wow...That is so appalling.

  In addition to already offered wise advice, I can just say "The only power they have over you is that which you allow"

  So do not be drawn into the stupid games the Elders try and play. If you and your boyfriend are comfortable with your relationship, then there is no need to allow anyone else to pry into it!

  Be happy, confident and keep your dignity.

  And as others have said, don't try and wake him up by dumping huge facts on him. Just slowly ask questions about things and let him be the "spiritual man" and research things...then slowly show him the things you have found....

  But I will also say one thing : Are you prepared to envision your life without him IF he doesn't wake up? You have your whole life ahead of you - don't get tied into the organization and have to live a lie....it will kill you.
  
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  2018-04-11-E-BOE--Speaker's Monitor!

  by Atlantis in

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  2. bible

  2018-04-11-e-boespeaker's monitorhttps://we.tl/em7bxi5o4oatlantis!.

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  Good to see that the Society is focussing on the BIG issues!
  
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  A Pasta C

  by Not_Culty in

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  All hail the Flying Spaghetti Monster- The saviour of hungry people the world over!
  
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  Palm Coast Facility Shut down

  by loneranger in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i understand the teaching facility in palm coast florida usa has been shut down now for about three months or so already.

  this is the facility the wts purchased from embrey riddle univ.

  a few years ago.

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  Ah, yes...Jehovah must have been asleep or on the toilet at the time of this decision being made!
  
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  I attended my 2nd exjw meetup and it was brilliant

  by UnshackleTheChains in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i decided to attend my 2nd scottish exjw meetup and what a blast.

  so many experiences.

  it was incredibly engaging to actually meet people in the flesh and hearing their personal stories.. the damage the watchtower organisation causes to peoples lives is absolutely disgusting.

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  WTF Himself I am??????
  
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  GDPR Query

  by Lost in the fog in

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  2. beliefs

  i know that there's been a lot posted about this already but i wanted to ask if anyone knew if the wts was in breach of the information commissioner's office (uk) directive or am i misunderstanding something.

  the ioc give a list of requirements with regards to charities and in part it says .

  that consent is not a precondition for the service provided.

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  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUn-DmvinlQ
  
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  I attended my 2nd exjw meetup and it was brilliant

  by UnshackleTheChains in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i decided to attend my 2nd scottish exjw meetup and what a blast.

  so many experiences.

  it was incredibly engaging to actually meet people in the flesh and hearing their personal stories.. the damage the watchtower organisation causes to peoples lives is absolutely disgusting.

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  Yes, such meet-ups are great!

  We have made some truly wonderful friends by meeting other ex-jws!
  
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  Your Favorite Plays on Words

  by compound complex in

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  2. entertainment

  greetings, fellow word lovers:.

  please add your favorite, clever smithing of words.. ****************************.

  time flies like an arrow and fruit flies like a banana..

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