It really amazes me when jws act like WE are hurting THEM!
Many of us have found that if we stop associating with them for valid reasons, THEY act all upset and hurt that we would be "so cruel as to limit our association or cut them off"
I know of friends here on the forum who have been told by parents that they "will shun them if they leave Jehovah" , and yet when the shoe is on the other foot and our awake friends shun them first, the parents cry and bemoan the situation and say how "cruel it is to deprive them of their company"
How hypocritical!