My mother who has been a JW for over 50 yrs, was sent an invatation to an elder's son high school graduation party. However it was addressed to just her alone not including her husband who is not a witness but a nice guy just no JW. The elder's son has yet to speak to my mother at the meetings even a hello or a casual conversation. She thinks this is just request for a $$$ gift for his kid graduation from high school. It is funny because in my day ( 1975) you was not suppose to have a graduation party because this was honoring the creature not the creator. Anyway my mother was taking to another JW sister and her husband who is not a JW was invited. This person has known about the JW's for over 30 yrs and as I known him since I was a witness in 1975. The above elder has discussions with this guy but he has yet to attend a JW meeting. By the way the above elder made it clear that I was to be d'fd when he was on my JC meeting. Is this a snub or politics ? Why would he invite one person not a JW to his kids HS grad party and not my dad. Both are not JW's but their wife's are. Is there something from the society as to who to invite and who not to invite to socal functions?