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  uhoh! getting married!

  by jwbot in

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  well mike and i have set a date.

  september 2005.. by that time we will have saved up $11,000 for the wedding (which will not be so expensive) and a honeymoon in rome!!!

  i am so excited, i have never been on a plane or out of the country (except to canada which does not count since i live in maine).. we are very happy...we have known for a while we were going to get married, and our conversation evolved from:.

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  Congratulations....and much happiness!!!
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  I can't believe I did it!!!

  by HadEnuf in

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  well my fellow compatriots, since i haven't posted any topics lately of an interesting or fascinating nature (and probably never have in the past either); i just thought you might all like to know that yesterday i took the plunge and put a closure on my 4 decades of being one of them there jw's.

  you guessed it...i went and got myself a tattoo!

  just needed to share this important moment in history.

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  I think that is sooooooooo awesome!!!

  When I was 41 I got a divorce...still a faithful JW.....I wanted a tattoo or a navel piercing!!! Well, do to pain issues, I picked the navel piercing!!!! I love it....there are a lot of kewl navel jewelry!!!

  Then a couple years later I met a HOT, JW, also divorced...that after he got divorced...did get a tattoo. It is an awesome tat.....looks like a piece of art!!! (we have both been fading for a year now).

  So, I have been kicking around a kewl tat that would be on the lower, mid section of my back...perfect place to be seen when I wear my cute little bikini...

  So my question to you: How painful was it?????? Let me know...please!!!

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  I'm Getting Married

  by RAYZORBLADE in

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  i'm getting married.. date not set, but it'll be sometime in the summer 2004, right here in toronto.. uh-huh...and it'll be a big party!.

  who is the lucky person?

  his name is drew, and he's an american.

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  Congratulations!!!!

  I hope you have many years of happiness....
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  Valis joins very exclusive Club

  by stillajwexelder in

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  really sorry if this is posted elsewhere - but i had to point out that very recently valis made the extremely exclusive 10000 club -- so it is now simon, minimus and valis -- - wonderful -.

  congratulations and may jehovah reward you with many glasses of bourbon or whatever your favorite drink is

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  Congrats Valis...

  ...here's to ya
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  Friggin Uge Catfish!!!

  by Valis in

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  you know they say everything really is bigger in texas...eheh this catfish was caught at lake texoma..a new state record at 140 lbs.. .

  sincerely,.

  district overbeer

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  codeblue

  omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  That is one huge fish!!!

  Wondering if that is the size of fish Jesus used to feed his "crowd".....lol

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  My new house is in my old congregation's territory

  by Nosferatu in

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  i'm going through the required stuffies to buy a house.

  actually, it's already mine, and posession date is at the end of september.

  it's a great house, finished basement, 2 bathroom, 2 (or 3) bedroom, heated garage with a ceiling fan (the guy who owned it went through a divorce, i'm guessing he lived in the garage), nice back yard, fence, quiet neighborhood, i could keep going.. the bad thing is it's in my old congregation's territory.

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  lol...who says you have to answer your door?

  Remember when we were in service and people "wouldn't answer their door?"

  It's your house...enjoy it!!!

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  What Things Did You Leave In Jehovah's Hands???

  by minimus in

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  i know of so many jw women that wanted to find a "mate" in the "truth" but instead became "old maids waiting on jehovah"......did you find yourself or know of others that just "waited on jehovah" while nothing got done??

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  ok.......nobody laugh please....

  I was divorced...for 1 year...but been separated longer than that...so basically "alone" for 1.5 years.....(after a 20 year marriage to a cheating JW)

  I had dated some brothers with a ZERO rating...had "worldly guys" hitting on me right and left. Went to a D. convention and said my final prayer: I am moving to get on with my life...I will not make finding a "husband" my goal. However if it is your will for me to have a "husband"..please bring him to me......

  A week later NOdenial walked into the place I worked............(we were both active JW's at the time too)......

  We had an instant attraction........informal witnessed to each other.......he lived thousands of miles away...

  Coincidence?????????

  We got married 8 months later......

  Started fading a year ago...........Interesting???

  I have also prayed for studies as an active JW.....I received them......

  When I was divorced I prayed to have enough money to live on..............I lived frugally...yet my needs were cared for...

  So yes, I left a lot of things in Jehovah's hands and I was (somehow) taken care of: coincidence??? I am not sure...If somebody has the answer........please let me know.

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  My Visit to Jesus' Tomb -- in Japan!

  by Leolaia in

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  my visit to jesus' tomb -- in japan!

  from an asleep!

  so therefore, christ must've lived in the village.

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  Very interesting info......and wonderful pictures...thanks for sharing....
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  Once a cheater always a cheater?

  by Aalena in

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  i caught my boyfriend of 8 years cheating on me about a month ago.

  he claims it is the only time he has ever cheated and he never thought he would ever cheat nor would he ever do it again.

  some of my friends are upset at me saying i should have left him immeditately.

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  Wow...sorry you are going thru this.

  My first husband started cheating by the 2nd anniversary.......and he even cheated later with my best friend in the Truth(tm)....We divorced 3 weeks before our 20th anniversary.......He never stopped cheating! Four years after the divorce he married my study, whom he also worked with in the past...(hmmm...no coincidence here!!!)

  Nobody ever told me to dump him....even at the end when I had the worst case scenario to find out about his cheating.....They supported me either way I chose...

  So I will not tell you to dump him.

  What is important here is YOU. How much do you value yourself?

  I had low self esteem and that is the reason I put up with his cheating, because even though he said he "cared about me"...logically, when a person has an affair or affairs, they DON'T care about you. He didn't know what love is...love doesn't CHEAT.

  Many times he was sorry he got CAUGHT....not what he did...

  Good advise: get an HIV test and any sexually transmiited disease tests...............take care of yourself!!!

  If you decide to continue the relationship, make it with mandatory counseling for BOTH of you....

  Please feel free to pm me if you need to vent or talk further....I am here for you!!!

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  GOT MY OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

  by josephus in

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  ive been here for around 5 years, but rarely write these days.

  well i had to tell everybody the good news.. since i drifted away (thanks to many but mostly simon and fakel) i have helped 7 people leave.

  today my mom has told me shes never going back.

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  codeblue

  Congrats on the upcoming marriage...!!!

  Just wondering, how did you get your Mom to read both of Ray Franz's books? Was your Mom a super Jw??? Just wondering...

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