Jez,
Thanks for sharing your recent life experience in being reinstated.
Hard to believe that in 2.5 months the elders approached you for a reinstatement letter and with not attending all meetings. And your friends said after you reinstatement: we can play cards! (rolling my eyes as I read that comment too, what love!) NO phone calls from people...and it took your brother 2 weeks to call you?
An organizaiton of brotherly love: NOT
Sorry you went thru all of this, but I think your thread will get many who are df'd to rethink "why get reinstated"?
Codeblue