i am on a pension, so i could not afford to pay for a psychologist, but my good doctor referred me to a free clinic for people on a low income, for my anxiety and depression, so i have finally got my first appointment with a psychologist since i started my fade, so where do i start trying to explain the mental trauma i feel as a fading jw?
i would appreciate your advice.
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The link for WTFree's post is:
http://www.exitingthejwcult.com/p/if-you-are-going-to-see-mental-health.html
As he mentioned, Bonnie's book is a must-read for ex-Dubs and their therapists.
(Bonnie's bio - https://www.blogger.com/profile/00282469017360136275 )
i've seen this twice now within a month.
a car group hanging out at a gas station.
one of the cult members jumps outs of their car and runs up to a "worldly" gas pumper, arm stretched out, tract in hand, and here comes the juvenile at best question.
We did this forever and a day ago.
Even discussed it in Pioneer School.
Pioneers would do a night shift of service, hitting 24-hour stores when the clerks had no customers and were bored.
this video will be played at one of the clam meetings in march 2016.. the content is kind of old news because it is a recut version of a previous video produced for the elder's school.
however, it's still significant because it shows that the organization still has dissenting brothers in positions of leadership.. my thanks to the leaker.
feel free to claim credit here.
No one has mentioned that "Mary's" emotions were triggered by the song, and the elders acknowledge this.
I distinctly remember watching a widow repeatedly leave the KH in tears because of the f'ed up songs - no matter at the beginning, middle, or end of the meeting.
A deliberate cult move. (The lead cult elder always had a satisfied look on his face when she teared up.)
he delivered the most cultic piece of propaganda i've ever seen in an assembly.
wife typed up the whole thing.
i will be posting when i get a chance.
Hi Berry (or anyone who can shed light on this)Where did Lett say that Abel witnessed his own birth? I could not find that statement.
Quote was:
Adam and Eve told him about God's promises when they were expelled from the Garden. Abel could see God's word had come true. Jehovah told Eve her labor pain would increase Abel could see Jehovah's promise came true when Even bore children.
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The Bible explicitly gives the order of Adam having intercourse (only twice - doesn't explain Abel's conception - why state intercourse to procreate Cain, and intercourse to procreate Seth, but not Abel) with Eve, and their first three children: Cain, Abel, and Seth.
Nowhere is there any indication of children having been born between Abel and Seth.
Eve proclaimed that Seth was a replacement for her dead son Abel. (Gen 4:25)
If Seth were a replacement for Abel, and there are no recorded children between those two, then how did Abel witness Eve's agony of childbirth?
i was just thinking about how the wts has been spouting off for years that satan and his demons were cast down to the vicinity of the earth in 1914, but really, when you think about it, what was the difference before 1914 or after 1914?.
its not like satan and his demons did not have access to the earth.
satan and his demons always were messing with earth.
So, what were they doing in heaven? Were they "harrassing" Jehovah, and Jesus? Were they "misleading" other "good" angels?
There is a documentary on what had actually transpired:
i've been awake now for about 6 months i'd guess and a member here for a couple of weeks.
it's been eye opening to read other peoples experiences on here and i appreciate all of you.
i've noticed in many, seemingly most, of your comments that you were not treated well at your hall or you have had very negative experiences in the "org" so i thought i'd like to share mine.. in all my time as a jw i have to say for the most part i always loved the people.
The feeling of love was overwhelming and it really changed me as a person and at the time really made me feel like this was God's love in action. Not sure how to feel about it now, but I still think back on that time with joy and appreciation.
There can be a genuine emotional feeling of love. However, my analysis is that this is a feeling of emotion. Do you tear up at movies. I do, all the time. I tear up with many songs sung at the KH.
WT is A MASTER at playing on emotion - it is the modus operandi of the organization. Every message from the GB ends with: "The GB loves you very much." Really? If they love every individual very much, should they not, at the least, respond to questions from those loved ones? (Give it a try.)
http://www.hgi.org.uk/archive/cults.htm
Why people join cults
"Cults form and thrive,” says Deikman, “not because people are crazy, but because they have two kinds of wishes. They want a meaningful life, to serve God or humanity; and they want to be taken care of, to feel protected and secure, to find a home. The first motives may be laudable and constructive, but the latter exert a corrupting effect, enabling cult leaders to elicit behaviour directly opposite to the idealistic vision with which members entered the group.
Usually, in psychiatry and psychology, the wish to be taken care of (to find a home, a parent) is called dependency and this is a rather damning label when applied to adults. Adults are not supposed to be dependent in that way, relying on another as a child would rely on a mother or father. We are supposed to be autonomous, self-sustaining, with the capacity to go it alone. We do recognise that adults need each other for emotional support, for giving and receiving affection, for validation; that is acceptable and sanctioned. But underlying such mature interdependency is the longing of the child, a yearning that is never completely outgrown. This covert dependency — the wish to have parents and the parallel wish to be loved, admired and sheltered by one's group — continues throughout life in everyone. These wishes generate a hidden fantasy or dream that can transform a leader into a strong, wise, protective parent and a group into a close, accepting family. Within that dream we feel secure.”
Read Steven Hassan's book. It's how high-control groups work.
he delivered the most cultic piece of propaganda i've ever seen in an assembly.
wife typed up the whole thing.
i will be posting when i get a chance.
Sorry, girlfriend, but I have learned not to fall for the JW strawman technique of "discussion."
Students are not greater than their teacher. But the student who is fully trained will become like the teacher.
It was Jesus himself who stated this. Therefore, those claiming to be Christ himself's "brothers," directly appointed by Jehovah God himself, ought to have their shit together, not shitting on the rest of humanity, and directly calling them "pieces of garbage."
And, as with all other alleged "JW apologists," you refuse to answer the most basic question:
"How did Abel witness his own birth?" as indicated by your "glorious one" (2 Pet. 2:10), Stephen Lett.
he delivered the most cultic piece of propaganda i've ever seen in an assembly.
wife typed up the whole thing.
i will be posting when i get a chance.
Do you really think that using the illustration of going down in an elevator is an undesirable thing is sound advice?
Yup, elevators are designed to go UP or DOWN.
Another illustration just like Jesus woulda dun. (Of course, Jesus and the GB only use the stairs. Some Lead Zeppelin thinga-majing.)
he delivered the most cultic piece of propaganda i've ever seen in an assembly.
wife typed up the whole thing.
i will be posting when i get a chance.
Moses had a speech impediment. God doesnt choose what we think he should choose. His advice was sound.
When Jesus finished these sayings, the effect was that the crowds were astounded at his way of teaching
.Students are not greater than their teacher. But the student who is fully trained will become like the teacher.
The crowds were astounded by Jesus' teaching because of its quality, not because he was a buffoon. Of all of JW's, the GB should be "fully trained," and like Jesus, should they not?
(BTW - can you respond to Abel witnessing his own birth?)
he delivered the most cultic piece of propaganda i've ever seen in an assembly.
wife typed up the whole thing.
i will be posting when i get a chance.
Abel could see Jehovah's promise came true when Eve bore children.
Abel witnessed his own birth? That's a good trick.
At the moment of his thievery he was an atheist.
So, Satan and the demons believe in God (and shudder), but Achan was a "temporary" atheist.
Rotten meat that smells good.
That's also a good trick.
