I don't think I've ever felt so betrayed...
This is the feeling that I have about my wife.
The things that she has said to MY family (as well as, more lately, hers) and the elders, all behind my back, simply infuriates me.
I told her I would have preferred that she had slept with someone.
As most are saying here, it's what we've been taught.
It is in our best interests to be completely dependent on the group.