If you want to start to understand why we all feel so messed up, take a look here:
http://www.exitingthejwcult.com/p/if-you-are-going-to-see-mental-health.html
Bonnie's book is a must-read for all JW's and exJW's (as well as their therapists)
http://www.amazon.com/EXiting-JW-Cult-Handbook-Witnesses/dp/1508477132
(Check the reviews)