So awesome to hear Quendi.....it so said the witness have made things that innocent these days and turned them bad.
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Intersesting Halloween for the GTTM family
by goingthruthemotions inwell as i have stated before, both our boys do mma fighting and training as do i. this past weekend we had a good practice.
went to get a bite to eat and our way home our younger son said...hey, lets go look at the trick or treaters.
both me and my wife said ok. .
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Need some input: Wife refuses to respect what I believe
by goingthruthemotions ini had a rough time with my wife last week.
i guess i started the fight by telling her that her love is conditional.
( and the fight started).
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goingthruthemotions
Thanks Alpha,
I am trying, very slowly. like i told her, i made a mistake by getting us involved with the JW's and I am sorry. she didn't say anything.
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Need some input: Wife refuses to respect what I believe
by goingthruthemotions ini had a rough time with my wife last week.
i guess i started the fight by telling her that her love is conditional.
( and the fight started).
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get advice Onthewayout,
Alphaman: the only person in her immediate family thats a jw is her mom and she is very old. her husband (not my wifes dad) is ubuer dubber but setting a bad example with our family right now.
on my side no one is in.
if she saiid right now i am not ever going back, i would not be hard.
and BTW: I don't speak to no one at the hall. no go out on service. maybe once a month for a coffee break. LOL
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Intersesting Halloween for the GTTM family
by goingthruthemotions inwell as i have stated before, both our boys do mma fighting and training as do i. this past weekend we had a good practice.
went to get a bite to eat and our way home our younger son said...hey, lets go look at the trick or treaters.
both me and my wife said ok. .
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goingthruthemotions
Thank you AlphaMan, I look forward to it also.
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Intersesting Halloween for the GTTM family
by goingthruthemotions inwell as i have stated before, both our boys do mma fighting and training as do i. this past weekend we had a good practice.
went to get a bite to eat and our way home our younger son said...hey, lets go look at the trick or treaters.
both me and my wife said ok. .
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goingthruthemotions
well as i have stated before, both our boys do MMA fighting and training as do I. this past weekend we had a good practice. went to get a bite to eat and our way home our younger son said...hey, lets go look at the trick or treaters. Both me and my wife said ok.
so we went to some neighborhoods and just looked at several homes and the decorations and the kids going door to door (no pun intended, LOL)
and our younger son said he wishes he could do it. I told him earlier i wish we could do it too. anyways we (my wife and I ) were remembering how much fun it was to get dressed up when they were little and go out.
I pointed out that it is harmless and you make it what you want. just like anything else. she stayed quite (cognitive disonance kicing in)
so we looked at alot of houses and when we got home. my son tells me in private. maybe next year we could send mom on a trip and go out. I said that would be great. he also said he wishes we could have christmas!!!!!!
I HATE THIS CULT!!!!!!!!!!!
The next day we were at the store and the halloween costumes on sale. we bought him one. and when i say we...both me and my wife.
I wish I never got involved in this CULT!!!!!!!!!!!
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Need some input: Wife refuses to respect what I believe
by goingthruthemotions ini had a rough time with my wife last week.
i guess i started the fight by telling her that her love is conditional.
( and the fight started).
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goingthruthemotions
it is an itersesting relationship....we have been together for a very long time and most of it was as non witness..celebrating holidays and living life.
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Need some input: Wife refuses to respect what I believe
by goingthruthemotions ini had a rough time with my wife last week.
i guess i started the fight by telling her that her love is conditional.
( and the fight started).
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goingthruthemotions
I had a rough time with my wife last week. I guess I started the fight by telling her that her love is conditional. ( and the fight started)
I guess in reality this fight started because I don't agree with the shunning practice. she has a sister that is DA'd and she still talks with her...but she is in cognitive dissonance paradise. I guess trying to come to terms with this practice. showing me scripture why the WT DF's people.
I explained to her that the 1 corthians scripture list's reasons not to associate with a person, and DA'ing is not one of them. And my point of view is Jesus taught love and it is not for us to judge.
BTW: i told her to look up cognitive dissonance....she came back and said FUCK YOU!!!! (excuse my language) ( we say the F word freely sometimes)
She doesn't see it that way....as 90% of JW brainwashed people are taught to shun and run.
i told her that i don't want our boys to get baptized and that getting us started in the religion was a big mistake and i am sorry i did it because it may be the ultimate ruin of our marriage as so many other people experience from this cult!!!!!!
I told her that if she decided to get DF's or DA'd or her mind changed about the borg, that i would love her the same. and if the boy were to get baptized (Jesus Forbid) and something happened, I would not shun them. I told her i would take a bullet for each of them and my love is deeper than anything she could imagine for my family.
well anyways.....we made up after a couple of days. keep in mind she knows how i feel and that i love her and our boys more than the BORG.
we were at the store and she told me she loves me and i told her i love her. and she said but we still have issues to figure out.
and i said " well lets agree that we disagree on some topics and our marriage is most important. but she said we should be on the same page about what we believe. I said we are all individual human and deserve the right to believe what we want to believe without prejudice." and left it at that.
The BORG really has it's members messed up. B.I.T.E model mind control.
I FREAKING HATE THIS CULT!!!!!!!!!!!
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tough year
by GoUnion inhello everyone just wanted to give a litte update on my leaving jws.
i was an active ms up till the beginning of this year and things were going pretty good up till now.
my wife is active and that has been tough but we were managing.. two months ago my older brother passed of a sudden heart attack.
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GoUnion: I am sorry for your situtation.
1. it is a sad state of affairs that a spouse will choose the BORG over a marriage.
2. Go see a counsellar, even if it is by yourself.
3. Take your time, because in reality....all you have is time.
4. Stay close to Jesus...he is the way, the truth and the light.
God bless you!!!!!!!
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My Relief
by Smart inwhat a massive relief!
thank god i have just found this site the other day!
i don't know where to begin!
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goingthruthemotions
Hi Smart,,,welcome to JWN.
Best Advice i could give you is to leave, don't look back.
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Consider the "outcome" when elders apply the two-witness "rule"
by AndersonsInfo injehovahs witnesses two-witness rule is applied by elders when a witness member accuses another member of a sin, even if that sin is a criminal act.
if there arent two witnesses to the accusation, it goes nowhere, including not being reported to the authorities.
and in the case of an allegation of child abuse, the accused is free to molest again.. watchtower attorney, jim mccabe, recently stated this about jehovahs witnesses two-witness rule which he described as a bible-based belief :.
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The Borg is a pedophiles dream......Those POS bastards. Castrate all of them.
I wish the BORG would just go away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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