Stumpy,
good on you mate....take it slow. remember time is now on your side. always let the missus know how much you love her.
things are going slow with my missus...she knows how i feel. i told her i support her and what ever she wants to do. so far just taking it day by day. we don't discuss anything BORG related. never did and don't and we don't associate with any witness's. and neither do our kids. this makes it easy.
live your life or lives and have respect for eachother. this is more than what the BORG will ever give and with that you will win the war.