Posts by goingthruthemotions

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need clarification: i told my wife the type and anti-type abolishment made the FDS a parable and not factual. boy did this piss her off

by goingthruthemotions in

let's just say i sometimes don't know how to keep my trap shut.

i really need to learn to keep well enough alone when she attacks me.

keep in mind i never start the fights about the borg.

goingthruthemotions

no i don't want a divorce. i love her with all my heart. my family is the most important thing to me on the face of this planet.

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need clarification: i told my wife the type and anti-type abolishment made the FDS a parable and not factual. boy did this piss her off

by goingthruthemotions in

let's just say i sometimes don't know how to keep my trap shut.

i really need to learn to keep well enough alone when she attacks me.

keep in mind i never start the fights about the borg.

goingthruthemotions

let's just say i sometimes don't know how to keep my trap shut. i really need to learn to keep well enough alone when she attacks me.

keep in mind i never start the fights about the BORG. But today was a doozy....she started going off on me about spiritually shit and stuff and about the meeting. i tried to ignore her a bit, but things just got worse.

i told her the below in no particular order;

1. if were living in the end times, why is the org still building and asking for money?

2. why is the anointed number keep going up?

3. i told her the abolishment of the type and anti-type made the FDS a parable and not actual. she than asked who is the FDS...i told her that we are all the FDS. this pissed her off

4. i asked her why don't we hear news about all the pedophile cases.

our boys saw us arguing and they know that the only reason we ever argue is because of this cult.

i truely hate it.....and hate how blind and nieve (spelled wrong) she is

please pray for our family to jesus...we need his guidance.

shallom

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1919 Doctrine no longer exists? (Today's Watchtower Study)

by FusionTheism in

quote from today's watchtower study article that's being studied at the halls (march 15, 2015, page 24):.

"understanding the illustration of the talents".

"when the master rewards the slaves.".

goingthruthemotions

Lets review...it's a cult.

Man it's like watching the lord of the rings movie.....i am just waiting for the unicorns to arrive. from what i hear...they are so fluffy.

when i read the bible...it's not this complicated and jesus doesn't change.

so sickening

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Getting married when you are spiritually out

by 1tMakesNoSence in

i met this amazing girl about 6years ago at my local congregation.

i was 100% in back then.

about 3years ago i woke up spiritually and kept it undercover till a few months ago.. this girl is still very in (but she doesnt really do the things a reaaal jw should do.

goingthruthemotions

don't do it....your in for a world of heartache. JW women are not mentally stable and are driven by guilt and suffer from congnitive dissonance from the BORG.

find a good women who has not attachment to the BORG.

Don't say we didn't tell you so.

shalom

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Is it possible that you were raised in a false religion?

by snare&racket in

jw
friends

do you believe in islam?

there are 1.6 billion muslims.

do you accept the pope as gods representative on earth?

goingthruthemotions

JW's are a cult, all religions are controlling. the only truth is JESUS.

if you were stranded on a deserted island alone, still believed in jesus, but practiced no orginized religion....would you still not be saved?

Jesus says: i am the truth, the way, the light...no get to my father except thorough me.

more importantly, be true to yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!! love yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dubs lack this ability....because the BORG sucks it out of them and makes them feel guilty for loving themselves.

I teach my kids everyday to put themselves first and love themselves and ignore anything they hear from the BORG. becauese its a cult.!!!!!!

shalom

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help catagorize my wife: I truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.

by goingthruthemotions in

i find it hard sometimes to get a good idea has to how to communicate with my wife when it come to this stupid cult.. she is born in and stopped attending for many years and got baptized later in life.

i truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.. here is a breakdown of what i gather to be where she is mentally.. * she calls the borg her faith.

here are actions that she does that go against her thoughts:.

goingthruthemotions

FT i do respect and support my wife,i cant say she so much supports me. Its more like she tolerates the fact that her husband is an apostate. She suffers from cognitive dissonance. Much like i suspect you do.

This cult has f'ed up her mind when it comes to life and simple plesures. What you and the other brain washed zombues dont understand is life is too short to waste it on a cult that destroys lives.

Wake up FT and stop fooling yourself

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help catagorize my wife: I truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.

by goingthruthemotions in

i find it hard sometimes to get a good idea has to how to communicate with my wife when it come to this stupid cult.. she is born in and stopped attending for many years and got baptized later in life.

i truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.. here is a breakdown of what i gather to be where she is mentally.. * she calls the borg her faith.

here are actions that she does that go against her thoughts:.

goingthruthemotions

Thanks all, i need to read more Hassan books. i am both comforted and agonized by the fact that so many have there significant other in the same situation has i am. I wish for all us.....that we along with our significant others break away clean, wake up together and leave the stupid cult behind us.

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help catagorize my wife: I truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.

by goingthruthemotions in

i find it hard sometimes to get a good idea has to how to communicate with my wife when it come to this stupid cult.. she is born in and stopped attending for many years and got baptized later in life.

i truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.. here is a breakdown of what i gather to be where she is mentally.. * she calls the borg her faith.

here are actions that she does that go against her thoughts:.

goingthruthemotions

Thank you ABibleStudent...alot of times my frustration is in the fact that i don't believe she has the mental aptitude to understand what she believes.

she is a smart woman in other things....but this. not so much.

I wish i would have never got involved with this cult. a huge mistake

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help catagorize my wife: I truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.

by goingthruthemotions in

i find it hard sometimes to get a good idea has to how to communicate with my wife when it come to this stupid cult.. she is born in and stopped attending for many years and got baptized later in life.

i truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.. here is a breakdown of what i gather to be where she is mentally.. * she calls the borg her faith.

here are actions that she does that go against her thoughts:.

goingthruthemotions

it seems like some of the items i listed has action were dropped.

1. she calls the borg her faith

2. she believes everything they say and has no reason to question them

3. she believes the shuning is ok

4. she considers the elders her spirtual head and not me.

things she does that counter her actions.

1. very rarely goes in field circus

2. always late for meetings.

3. talks to DA'd sister

4. son's are not allowed to hang with associate with witnesses....only non witness kids will do

5. believe in higher education.

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help catagorize my wife: I truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.

by goingthruthemotions in

i find it hard sometimes to get a good idea has to how to communicate with my wife when it come to this stupid cult.. she is born in and stopped attending for many years and got baptized later in life.

i truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.. here is a breakdown of what i gather to be where she is mentally.. * she calls the borg her faith.

here are actions that she does that go against her thoughts:.

goingthruthemotions

Hello All,

i need some help if possible. i find it hard sometimes to get a good idea has to how to communicate with my wife when it come to this stupid cult.. she is born in and stopped attending for many years and got baptized later in life.

I truely believe she suffers from cognitive dissonance and other things this stupid cult causes.

here is a breakdown of what i gather to be where she is mentally.

* she calls the BORG her faith

here are actions that she does that go against her thoughts:

* she doesn't go out in field circus and when she does it's for 30 mins at a time. I don't go and i don't report time and am not sure if she does.

sometimes I am at my wits end....her actions show she doesn't want to be in the BORG. but, the guilt inside probably eats her up.

I truely believe she lacks the mental capacity to understand and research what she believes. and i know for a fact she has no idea of she has ever been taught and how the changes that have been made counter she has been taught.

I feel she is has low inteligence when i comes to understanding this cult and is just burying her head in the sand.

i really don't know how to deal with her on this level. i just try and ignore it because of lack of mental intellect for the BORG.

Any suggestions on how to proceed would be good.

I am sure i have forgot to put down things she does and doesn't do. so questions would be good.

gttm