HI Coginac, you did the right thing. it's best when they find out themselves. it's so awesome you stood your ground, maybe she will think and maybe she won't. but, it will be her not you doing it.
i wish my wife was like you!!!!
i was just talking to my mom a few weeks ago.
she said, out of all her kids, i was the only one she didn't have to worry about as far as spirituality.
i always took a stand for jehovah.. she told when all of her kids were little, she gave us the option of not eating birthday cakes in school.
HI Coginac, you did the right thing. it's best when they find out themselves. it's so awesome you stood your ground, maybe she will think and maybe she won't. but, it will be her not you doing it.
i wish my wife was like you!!!!
my wife is shunning me.
she is always in cult mode, we don't talk anymore, we don't sleep in the same bed.
i have been sleeping on the couch.
My wife is shunning me. she is always in cult mode, we don't talk anymore, we don't sleep in the same bed. i have been sleeping on the couch. when i get home from work, i go to another room and just get on my computer. our boys will come in and talk with me. she usually spends he time in our bedroom on her tablet. on the borg website. or studying magazines.
Our sons see what is happening, this religion is tearing our family apart and she just doesn't care. i really don't know what she feels. maybe she is numb to the relationship now that i am viewed has an apostate. i just wish i could turn back time and never have gotten involved in this cult. Why did i ever do it???? why, why why !!!!!!
things just are not going well and i just don't know what to do anymore. We have been together for 27 years, the last 7 years of which taken by this cult. and now it has taken my marriage. what do i do? just let it fall apart? i could never imagine my relationship going like this. I love her with all my heart!!!!!!!!!!!
i just wish this cult would go away, i wish she would open her eyes and see how bad this cult is. i wish she could see how much more our family is than this cult. i wish upon a luck star....please grant my wish...please please please please please please .
it funny how the cult will imbelish on somethings and others they just sweep under the rug and you never hear anything about it again.
i was just doing some searches on the internet and stumbled on this.
i had heard that the dub's were trying to get people to go to israel and then you never hear anything after that.
my point of brining up the article is this.
has sir82 mentioned, the dub's were asking volunteers. i.e. the chariot is moving forward. but, when it hits a brick wall.
zilch....you hear nothing anymore. no new on there site, they never want to show themselves in negative light.
just another sign of a cult. i truely wish i would have seen the signs before joining this captive group.
i hate this cult!!!!!!!!
it funny how the cult will imbelish on somethings and others they just sweep under the rug and you never hear anything about it again.
i was just doing some searches on the internet and stumbled on this.
i had heard that the dub's were trying to get people to go to israel and then you never hear anything after that.
it funny how the cult will imbelish on somethings and others they just sweep under the rug and you never hear anything about it again.
i was just doing some searches on the internet and stumbled on this. i had heard that the dub's were trying to get people to go to israel and then you never hear anything after that.
but looks like the rest of the story isn't so good.
words can't express my distain for this cult!!!!!!
most everyone was very nice.
i did get a couple of we miss you soooo much and an elder that said he might drop by someday to say hello when he gets a chance....i'm already prepared for him if he should show up.. over all, it got finished and i'm going to bed..
just saw this on the public area of jwtalk (i am not a member).
here is the link.. http://jwtalk.net/forums/topic/23523-privvy-news/.
such a shame - i do feel for these ones - i just don't know what to say.... wgo.
i think i barfed in my mouth looking at that site. how could people be so delusional?
ramping up what? the cart work?
i hate this cult!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
why are jw's not allowed to do certain things because they have "pagan origins", yet the very same roof over their head and the the food they place into their mouth is purchased through money with pagan origins on it?
pagan symbolism is all over money.
so if the wt leaders are so against paganism, why are they insisting "jehovah's" earthly organization needs pagan money to sustain itself, yet disfellowshipping members if they cross the line into paganism?.
yep, he told her that he wants to go a friends b-day...keep in mind it's not until december.
well anyway i told her i didn't mind if he did and i would take him.
yep, enter cult mode.....i hate this freaking cult.
Thanks all, i love this site. i have talked with both our sons about the bad parts of the borg. i will take him to the b-day party.
i just sit and wait for the hammer to drop. it will only drop 2 ways.
1. she will want a divorce because i am an apostate.
2. she will see the borg for what it is ( a cult) and has my youner son says. she and we will drift away from the cult.
i know am betting on option 1. but, the hammer will drop and we will be nothing more than another watchtower statistic.
yep, he told her that he wants to go a friends b-day...keep in mind it's not until december.
well anyway i told her i didn't mind if he did and i would take him.
yep, enter cult mode.....i hate this freaking cult.
Yep, he told her that he wants to go a friends b-day...keep in mind it's not until december. well anyway i told her i didn't mind if he did and i would take him.
yep, enter cult mode.....i hate this freaking cult. she gave him this guilt trip that it would hurt her feelings if he went. i then told her. what about his feelings. I told her i am not going to take away his childhood...like her childhood was taken away. she said it would eventualy come out to the elders. i said...well they better not approach me, not unless they are ready to get an ass kicking.
i told her that she follows man just like the catholics worship the pope. and to show me scriptually where birthdays are not to be celebrated. i told her the rule was made up by man not the bible.
i told her that getting involved with this religion was the worse mistake i evermade. i just hate this cult soooooo much. it has ruined my marraige.
aghhhhhhhh