Lying is wrong and immoral... that is one of the biggest reasons I ended up on this site... in search of truth.
However this does bring up an interesting question.
If I can accept someone who's sexual orientation is different from their birth sex and they choose to go with the former than can I accept a person who's racial orientation is different from their birth race and they also choose to go with the former? Hmmmmm.....
On a side note, I have a friend who is native Hawaiian and now that she is older she has a skin or pigment condition that changed her to white, and I mean white with no visible trace of her previous darker skin.
P. S. Anybody remember the book "Watermelon Man?"