I talked to my Mom about it, and she was very uplifted by TOMO III's talk.
What she got out of it was that parents do have a degree of responsibility to what their children's actions were, but that they shouldn't take it too harshly anyways. She also kept saying that TOMO III was just joking around and making jokes about things.
A lot of what she was saying about it was very garbled and vague.