How much control is acceptable for a husband to impose on his wife?
Could a husband prevent his wife from cheating on him?
Could a husband prevent his wife from committing heinous crimes?
Ok, then, I would divorce. Because if my wife commits those crimes I would leave her.
I think putting the blame on Jesus for the wrong acts of those who claim to act in his name is misguided.
If Jesus is currently the head of the Church, he is in fact responsible for its crimes. But if Jesus died as any man, and had no responsibility for what his apostles preached after that, so he was a simply man whose figure was used to expand a sect of liars.