It's truly terrible and sad the way this cult splits up families.
If you have no emotions or don't want to spend your time emoting, fine.
If you want to cry, fine.
I will face a similar situation when my dad dies (although it's actually nothing to do with the WTS). My dad was in good health the last time I saw him in 2015 aged 67. I don't know what kind of health he's in today, I'm guessing he's still alive.