Posts by kairos

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TV.JW.Org - Streamed to KHs via the New Projectors

by passwordprotected in

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i read here recently that the khs are being instructed to buy and install projector systems.. now that we've seen the launch of of tv.jw.org we can fully expect public talks to - on a monthly basis at least - be replaced by content streamed from the site to the screens in khs.. .

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kairos

This must be the big news that is supposed to bring us back to the meetings.

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my first post! (long read sorry in advance)

by Letts Party in

long time lurker, first time poster here finally looking to get some things off my chest.

i've always been a very curious person with tons of questions about everything, and i also care deeply particularly about societal issues like social injustice, racism, and homophobia.

that, coupled with how boneheaded all the elders in my congregation are (except for one), led me to ask even more questions that led me to find ttatt.. .

kairos

Thanks for posting.

"Lett's Party" is a total crack-up name! Made my day.

Getting out takes time. I made the mistake in saying too much too soon to my still in wife.

Reminds me of when we first got the "truth" and said too much too soon and drove all of our "worldly friends" away from us.

Dial it back. Be patient. Ask for your wife's view on "bible understanding" without using WT publications.

Have her put it in writing and to take her time. Be willing to hear her out and beware the tendancy to insult her faith or the ORG as this will be taken personally. Give her as much time as she needs. ( a year or longer if that is what it takes ).

It's taken me four years to get where I am today, don't expect here to wake up overnight.

Your story has little pieces of all of us in it to some degree. Thanks for taking the time to post it here.

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Where Are You on The Witno Scale?

by tresdecu in

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friends

1 - still think it's the truth ...came to this site cause danger is your middle name.. 2 - concerned, smoething's amiss but still believe.

3 - 98% sure it's bs, but still go for / with family.

4 - anger / denial, inactive with minimal attendance (ie memorial, spec talk etc).

kairos

5, no doubt.

Faded from about two years ago. Definately gone.

( unless I recieve "New Light", then all bets are off )

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Why do you come here?

by love2Bworldly in

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friends

i come here to learn, but i also come here because it feels like a private club and i'm privy to be a member of the "in" crowd.

it's a great place to socialize.

does anyone else feel that they are a member of a special "club" when they come here, that only some people in this world will understand the jw world?.

kairos

Leaving the Watchtower was one of the most difficult and painful experiences I have ever faced in life.

I come here every day to veryify that I have not made the wrong choice by waking up.

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Reflections - Updating MD card - did you stop updating?

by berrygerry in

i finally removed my md card from my wallet yesterday.. although we were encouraged to create a new card annually, i had an internal hesitation, and a lack of enthusiam for it, as well as the meaningless cards for my kids.. the card that was pulled from my wallet was dated 1994. i obviously had some unconscious, if not conscious, problems with the borg, maybe with the 1995 generations bs.. did others stop updating their cards long before exiting?.

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kairos

I bet signing and maintaining one's "Advanced Medical Directives" is near the top of the list of first things stopped by nearly everyone that leaves.

Wouldn't be surprised if it was done subconsiously by most, either.

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Reflections - Updating MD card - did you stop updating?

by berrygerry in

i finally removed my md card from my wallet yesterday.. although we were encouraged to create a new card annually, i had an internal hesitation, and a lack of enthusiam for it, as well as the meaningless cards for my kids.. the card that was pulled from my wallet was dated 1994. i obviously had some unconscious, if not conscious, problems with the borg, maybe with the 1995 generations bs.. did others stop updating their cards long before exiting?.

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kairos

Last signed card was in '99.
The last meeting I attended was the "Annual" in 2013...

I alreay had started disobeying 15 years ago and didn't even know it yet.

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problems on site

by kairos in

i can only post a new topic.

not able to reply to any.

~ also, i cannot see past the first page of any given topic list or thread with more than one page of content.

kairos

Hmmm.

Now everything is back to normal.

I guess I should have posted three days ago...

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problems on site

by kairos in

i can only post a new topic.

not able to reply to any.

~ also, i cannot see past the first page of any given topic list or thread with more than one page of content.

kairos

I can only post a new topic. Not able to reply to any. ~ Also, I cannot see past the first page of any given topic list or thread with more than one page of content. ~ The date and time format also changed. ~ Thanks!

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