I have been out since 1976 (right after 1975).
Denied a college education, it really was too late as my life had taken another trajectory. I fell in love with the President of the company for which I worked. Married at the time, he said, "this is all wrong, you have got to get out of your marriage and your religion."
This man, who was not emotionally stable, gave me the impetus and the catalyst to get out. Within 6 months I was out and within a year divorced.
I was always artistic, could have had a major artistic career, but alas, it is what it is.
The affair was doomed; I spent many years working in corporate which I hated and meeting men and women through personal ads.
These many years later I am married to my wonderful second husband (who once studied for the Catholic priesthood), and I have a very successful and active shop on Etsy.
Life is interesting. And it is very short. It is about the journey. Make the most of it. It could always have been better. It could always have been worse.