Junction: They came here so "we the people" could determine our own destiny as a nation instead of having power concentrated in the hands of a few.
Yeah, well...you can't escape history, can you?
Those "we the people" decided quite some time ago (okay...a while back but not that long), that the destiny of the nation was to respect and uphold the rights of a minority in the face of majority opposition.
...it stands against everything I hold dear--freedom of speech, freedom of religion, etc etc.
You just shot yourself in the foot with that statement. Those principles are exactly the principles that legalizing gay marriage is based upon - the right of the minority. Without that right, your freedom of speech and freedom of religion would be flushed down the toilet.
It does NOT stand against everything you hold dear - it is because of what you hold dear that this ruling came about.