New Day
My Dad was an Elder (deceased) all my life. He was fair, impartial and kind like you. I know there are a few out there.
I kuddo you. I wish there were more Elders out there like you were.
I can almost guarantee that if my Dad were alive today he would be deleted or resign as an Elder. It seems the genuine/kind/loving ones don't last. We have witnessed that several times in our own family.
Sad to say.