"As I looked at their lives objectively, there really isn't anything special about them."
You are correct, there is NOTHING special about them. They think they are Jehovahs "special possessions."
We have need greater/pioneer family members and WOW do they think they are wonderful. So much better than you and not afraid to tell you. They really don't see how pathetic they look to some of the family. Legends in their own minds.
They sure know how to sniff the ones who have money! They only come around when they need something.