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  A fresh start

  by FormerlySandL in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  after the worst introduction i could ever make on the forum i would like to reintroduce myself and make a fresh start on the forum and hopefully over time i will be able to redeem myself.

  i have changed my user name which was over dramatic and ridiculous in the cold light of day but for transparency and to show i am not trying to hide anything i have adapted the original name and it now has a more positive feel.

  after reading a lot of posts on this forum i am feeling more optimistic about my future.

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  Welcome
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  Why the Deficit at the Circuit Assembly?

  by JT-LadyC in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  have you ever wondered why there is always a deficit at the circuit assembly?

  did you realize that before the program begins, the circuit is already in the red?

  many of the friends thought they were paying for the use of the building and covering the costs of the utilities, etc.

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  "a clear zombie obeying any orders."

  There ya go! That's what it all boils down to. You are not a company man. That's a good thing! If you don't agree, you MUST go! That's a good thing too!

  The only satisfaction we have is that NO money is coming from us anymore.

  LURKERS; VOTE WITH YOUR WALLETS!!!
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  If your Absence doesn't affect them, then your Presence never mattered!

  by stuckinarut2 in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  what a powerful quote!.

  "if your absence doesn't affect them, then your presence never mattered.".

  how true!

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  Great and perfect quote Stuck!
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  Narcissistic personality disorder and the dubs

  by purrpurr in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i've recently started to research npd.

  having identified several of my family members as having it ( no wonder we're such a ¿***#@**!!!!

  up family)there's huge similarities between the borg and individual members of the cong as well i've noticed.the over whelming love of self, the need to believe in a grandiose fictional version of themselves, always striving for more power and wealth, being unable to stand any criticism, and then there's the manipulation of the victims too.i could be wrong i guess but what thoughts do you guys have about it?

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  "Best thing to do with toxic individuals (or family) is to remove them from your life like the cancer they are."

  Best advice Wing Commander. If you research ND, even the experts say if you come across others who are truly narcissistic...run like hell. You can not help nor change them, they are toxic.
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  Narcissistic personality disorder and the dubs

  by purrpurr in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i've recently started to research npd.

  having identified several of my family members as having it ( no wonder we're such a ¿***#@**!!!!

  up family)there's huge similarities between the borg and individual members of the cong as well i've noticed.the over whelming love of self, the need to believe in a grandiose fictional version of themselves, always striving for more power and wealth, being unable to stand any criticism, and then there's the manipulation of the victims too.i could be wrong i guess but what thoughts do you guys have about it?

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  I also did extensive research in ND a few years ago. I worked with a person who was 100% Narcissistic. It is truly something to observe.

  The upper echelon of the JW organization is unbelievably narcissistic! Anthony Morris' narcissism shows every time he opens his mouth. He is smug and insulting and I believe he has caused a tremendous amount of damage to so many. I think Anthony and his gang are doing all the dirty work for us.

  This trickles down through the ranks. There are some good/genuine people in the org, but always keep in mind that they are brainwashed to practice shunning. This is not normal behavior and is the worst form of bullying. I am no longer surprised by people's behavior. Our life has moved on but we are fascinated by how all of this is playing out.
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  GoFundMe - JW Pioneer & LDC Couple

  by Listener in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  jerry jones on youtube exposed a jw couple who were begging for money on gofundme.

  this is his youtube .

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=feohxtbml2c.

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  5 months and they received $100?

  I guess Jah didn't touch the heart of others to donate.

  Some JW's feel they are entitled that others to take care of them.
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  This is Just getting Ridiculous and out of hand with the Borg

  by MrsR-Awaken in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  saw this on reddit it was posted by user morgan_sparlock .

  to me honestly this would of been prohibited 10 years ago, but now every dub is obsessed with this website, it's everywhere even a damn iphone cover... ooh they don't approve of idolatry ooh no they don't accept cross veneration thats bullshit to me!!!

  its getting to a point that they are venerating this website (company logo) it's their version of the cross.

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  Idol worship, at it's best!
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  So Proud of Pops

  by brandnew in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  ok so a car pulls up to the house and 3 eldurrs from my dads congo come up.

  they come in and have thee nerve to ask me to step out so they can speak to pops!!!!

  this is the good part.....pops says...and i quote " whatever needs to be said..can be said in front of my son".

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  I'm lovin your Dad...sounds like a brilliant man!!
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  What Is The Watchtower's Biggest Problem?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  the organization has many problems.

  certain doctrines are problematic.

  the men who run the organizaion have issues.

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  I believe the bethel layoff's will become an issue in the next year or 2. These folks are being sent packing with no special pioneer title or any pay. They will have to fend for themselves. Oh, the local congregation may help out for a few weeks or months. However, after they have been back home... reality of getting a paying job will set in. How about paying for rent, food and health insurance. I believe many of these laid off will become very bitter over time. I hope we see them on this forum telling their story.

  What amazed me when I started lurking on this site years ago...was how many ex-bethelites are here. I guess once you have seen it from the inside you get to really understand it is only a man made org and the holy spirit does not exist!

  I would say these folks could cause some problems for the org.especially if they have insider information and begin to share it!
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  Toasting is Pagan - How many contradictions can fit in 2 pages, I found 5?

  by jwfacts in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  the watchtower 2007 feb 15 pp.30-31 explains why jehovah's witnesses are not to toast.

  what is astounding is that for each point they then go on an explain why the point is irrelevant, yet still conclude toasting is wrong.

  what did people think when reading this?

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  ToesUp

  Rules, rules, rules and more rules!

  I am so glad we are OUT!