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  Lost on how to respond...

  by babygirl30 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so an old friend of mine from the congregation hit me up today.

  the story goes like this when we were jw's:.

  - this guy used to be madly in love with me but i didn't see him as anything more than a friend.

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  ToesUp

  Great response!
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  Lost on how to respond...

  by babygirl30 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so an old friend of mine from the congregation hit me up today.

  the story goes like this when we were jw's:.

  - this guy used to be madly in love with me but i didn't see him as anything more than a friend.

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  ToesUp

  By responding, you may as well walk up to the wall and bang your head. It will make ZERO difference what you say.

  The Elders have a task at hand. They have been instructed to get in touch with DF'd and inactive ones to invite them to the memorial.

  Not trying to hurt your feelings but all he is doing is a task that he was instructed to do. Nothing more.

  You were kind and loving in reaching out to him. Let it go at that...a good deed.

  Like Doc says....the best revenge is living a happy and successful life. Hugs to you! The world needs more kind and loving people like you.
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  This was in 2011 (when you get it)

  by ILoveTTATT2 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  it's not the rings... that was highlighted for a different reason..

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  ToesUp

  He's a coward. There is not "boldness" when it comes to these 7.

  They want us to teach our little children to be "bold witnesses" yet they can not do the same.

  Do as I say, not as I do mentality. Hypocrisy and lack of love is the main reason people are hitting the exit. People are seeing right through these guys. They are doing a fantastic job of exposing themselves. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK WT!
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  "Don't make mountains out of molehills"

  by stephanie61092 in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  during the talk today, the speaker said, in reference to apostates, "don't make mountains out of molehills" and "all those who are do good to look up isaiah 43:18.

  " to save you trouble, it says: "do not remember the former things, and do not dwell on the past.".

  i'd like to see him read that scripture to the victims of the hundreds and hundreds of abuse cases the arc has unveiled from over the past 50 years.

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  I have seen many JWs who share this same attitude UNTIL it happens to them. When something earth shattering happens or they feel they have been unfairly treated, the tables turn. Molehills turn into mountains for sure!
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  Why dont you go to the memorial?

  by atomant in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  l guess we all have our own reasons and thought it would give insight to others considering going to reconsider and not go.

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  ToesUp

  I don't hang out or attend events where I feel that I am not wanted. I refuse to attend just to boost their numbers.
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  ELDERS STEPPING DOWN

  by ADJUSTMENTS in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  between two congregations that i know of four elders have stepped down in the last two months!

  there is something really going on in this mandmade organization!

  it's busting at the seams!.

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  ToesUp

  I thought this would be a good thread to bump.

  Two years later, is anyone seeing Elders still stepping/or wanting to step down?
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  Not that I'm complaining but I'm wondering if something is up

  by joe134cd in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i have physically not attended a meeting in 3 years and knew ttatt for about 6-18 months before that.

  in that time i have only had 2 physical visit from the jws.

  no return to jehovah brochure or memorial invite place under my door mat.

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  ToesUp

  I told my spouse if we want them to stay away we can't complain when they don't come by. They are doing what we want them to do...staying away. I just find it facinating that when they go from door to door they don't leave the invitation to the memorial. Why do you spend all that time, why not leave the invite. Makes zero sense.
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  JW Videos

  by HowTheBibleWasCreated in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  my belief is that the jw organization is moving towards video teaching.

  at the last convention a mini jesus movie was created.

  today watching the jw video on 'older ones' is the famous widow in the temple scene with the same actor for jesus.. are they slowly and carefully making a jesus movie?.

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  ToesUp

  By doing the videos, the GB can control the cult. No more rouge Elders putting their 2 cents and personal opinions into their parts and talks. It's all about the power, control and oh yes....Follow the money!
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  Why dont you go to the memorial?

  by atomant in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  l guess we all have our own reasons and thought it would give insight to others considering going to reconsider and not go.

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  ToesUp

  I have not attended in 3 years. This will be my spouses first year not attending. Does not want to be included in the head count. Hopefully, the numbers will drop significantly in 2016. If we can contribute in this Cults demise, it would be an honor.
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  Talking to a wall

  by ivanatahan in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  why must these people be figurative walls when talking about the lies of the jw cult?.

  the other day, i had a conversation with my mother.

  we started talking about the election and how the candidates differ (me being a supporter of bernie).

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  ToesUp

  We have the same experiences with our family. We have decided just not to go there anymore. Like you said...it's like talking to the wall. Frustrating! Sometimes my spouse just switches the subject.