It must be a relief for you.
"What I don't get is that he's a well respected elder and he honestly couldn't address one question raised."
We have noticed this also with our family. They just keep parroting, "obedience to Jehovah."
At least you have been honest with your families. I admire that. It will be interesting to see how they all treat you and your wife in the near future. I am sure you are prepared for whatever they have to dish our.
Keep us posted Darkknight757. Good for you, you were honest with your families. Maybe we will get there soon!