TheFadingAlbatros

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  How to fade intelligently ?

  by TheFadingAlbatros in

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  how to fade intelligently ?

  tell me your secret and then i will tell you in due time my secret.

  it's important when we have to face a manipulative cult with some members of our family trapped inside, yes it is important to know how to fade intelligently so that our jw family members are not going to shun us.

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  How to fade intelligently ? Tell me your secret and then I will tell you in due time my secret. It's important when we have to face a manipulative cult with some members of our family trapped inside, yes it is important to know how to fade intelligently so that our JW family members are not going to shun us. Please tell me how you do to cope ?
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  My own daughter has much suffered; she will get justice in due time.

  by TheFadingAlbatros in

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  just learned today direct from my beloved daughter that she has been abused between 5 and 12 years old by 2 brothers (her own cousins) and 1 family "friend".

  she has attempted suicide a few days ago.

  luckily she is living and she is not physically injured.

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  Nathan Natas said:theFadingAlbatros said, "I could never imagine before this kind of could touch my own family." Did you see yourself as superior to the other members of the congregation ? I'm sorry your daughter had this experience and I hope she can learn that SHE has no guilt in this matter and her value as a human being is not diminished.

  When I told ""I could never imagine before this kind of could touch my own family." I just wanted to speak of my huge surprise, but I have never had the slightest feeling that my daughter is diminished.

  Regarding my position towards the other members of the congregation how could I feel myself superior to them ? I do not belong anymore to the JW congregation since many years. My fading and my inactivity are both 100 %. I do not trust anymore in the religious organization directed by the 7 manipulators forming the GB in USA.

  In my point a view I am not anymore a member of the congregation. I have to fade for family reasons.

  Nathan Natas, now what I need is comfort, not your criticism.Thanks.
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  My own daughter has much suffered; she will get justice in due time.

  by TheFadingAlbatros in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  just learned today direct from my beloved daughter that she has been abused between 5 and 12 years old by 2 brothers (her own cousins) and 1 family "friend".

  she has attempted suicide a few days ago.

  luckily she is living and she is not physically injured.

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  Her schoolmates have sent her a huge poster with colorful drawings and well written encouragement's words. She was so happy, Life is nice. Children are the best gift we have.
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  My own daughter has much suffered; she will get justice in due time.

  by TheFadingAlbatros in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  just learned today direct from my beloved daughter that she has been abused between 5 and 12 years old by 2 brothers (her own cousins) and 1 family "friend".

  she has attempted suicide a few days ago.

  luckily she is living and she is not physically injured.

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  My daughter is much better today. This night I will sleep "sur mes deux oreilles" (on both ears), the first time since many nights and days of huge anxiety.

  I am very grateful to the staff of her psychiatric clinic, for their wonderful skills.

  I'll tell you more about my daughter later. Today she was looking at me with her magic gaze of an indo-european princess. Such a hapiness ! The value of true innocent children has no price.

  Thanks for reading.
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  My own daughter has much suffered; she will get justice in due time.

  by TheFadingAlbatros in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  just learned today direct from my beloved daughter that she has been abused between 5 and 12 years old by 2 brothers (her own cousins) and 1 family "friend".

  she has attempted suicide a few days ago.

  luckily she is living and she is not physically injured.

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  In fact after reconsidering some details now I can say that there is only one pedophile involved in the 7 years of abuse of my younger daughter. This only one pedophile is the so-called friend of the family.

  What the pedophile has done to my younger daughter has put her during infancy in such a mental confusion, that she was not not able at that time to refuse the depraved fondles of two Indian family members (cousins). The two cousins are not pedophiles, but anyway they are both sexual perverts.

  Now I know that before the pedophile abused my younger daughter he has already abused a young girl during 3 years. This young girl is my elder daughter who is 6 years older than my younger daughter. She told me about it for the first time the day before yesterday.

  My elder daughter has been abused in India by the pedophile from 1998 to 2001, from her age of 8 to her age of 11, and my younger daughter has been abused by the same pedophile from 2001 to 2008, from her age of 5 to her age of 12. In 2009 we left India to establish ourselves in Europe. The pedophile was gone. But at that time both my wife and myself were sure he is a upright family friend.

  My younger daughter, the one who has done a suicide attempt last monday has not been violated or sodomised, neither by the pedophile nor by her cousins. The pedophile has tried once to have a fellation from my younger daughter : he pulled her by the arm in the bathrom on the ground floor (four bathrooms in the big house) but luckily she succeeded to escape before and she took refuge in the front yard of the house and placed herself under the protection of our guard dog. The dog was hating the pedophile. Dogs can feel when something is wrong. Unfortuntely my wife and my self we could not at that time.

  My elder daughter who told me for the first time the day before yesterday about the pedophile abuse she has suffered during 3 years, told me that after the pedophile abuse a cousin of our Indian family has done something with her ( not the same cousin as the two cousins above mentioned). But she does not want to give me any details, as she told me that it took her 13 years of personal praying with Jehovah, from 2002 to 2014 to feel well mentally now. Now she is married and told everything about the abuse to her husband before marriage. She told me that now she does not want anymore to speak about what se has suffered and she will not allow anybody to open an old wound now.

  My younger daughter is in full mental confusion now after her suicide attempt. In the psychiatric clinic the staff is taking care so that she does no attempt suicide again. She is receiving special treatment and nobody except family members are allowed to visit her. But I am sure that she will recover but it will take time. Personally I visit her every day by bus and train.

  My wife, our elder daughter, my son (first marriage) and my self, we all four hope that the cruelty of the situation we have to face day and night will not drive us insane. We all four want to remain strong, to be able to help my younger daughter in cooperation with the staff of the clinic, till she will be allowed to leave the clinic to come back home.

  Thanks again for reading, for your comments and your messages.
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  My own daughter has much suffered; she will get justice in due time.

  by TheFadingAlbatros in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  just learned today direct from my beloved daughter that she has been abused between 5 and 12 years old by 2 brothers (her own cousins) and 1 family "friend".

  she has attempted suicide a few days ago.

  luckily she is living and she is not physically injured.

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  In my prvious post I said : I will contact tomorrow the "Bodily and Sexual Department of the Judicial Police"

  Please read : I will contact tomorrow the "Bodily and Sexual Integrity Department of the Judicial Police"
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  My own daughter has much suffered; she will get justice in due time.

  by TheFadingAlbatros in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  just learned today direct from my beloved daughter that she has been abused between 5 and 12 years old by 2 brothers (her own cousins) and 1 family "friend".

  she has attempted suicide a few days ago.

  luckily she is living and she is not physically injured.

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  Thank you so much JustMe2 for your kind message.
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  My own daughter has much suffered; she will get justice in due time.

  by TheFadingAlbatros in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  just learned today direct from my beloved daughter that she has been abused between 5 and 12 years old by 2 brothers (her own cousins) and 1 family "friend".

  she has attempted suicide a few days ago.

  luckily she is living and she is not physically injured.

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  I will contact tomorrow the "Bodily and Sexual Department of the Judicial Police" in my country in Europe to inform them of what has happened to my daughter. They will open a file, and then in due time they will make the necessary investigations and inform the Indian authorities and those of another country about the different repeated abuses. I want the abusers of my daughter to face justice. Prison or hanging ? Indian government will decide.

  My daughter is a bit better but it will take time to get her out of the diffcult situation she is facing now. (one, two months, or more ?)

  Life is sometimes very very cruel but it is worth to fight for justice if you love your children.

  Thanks for reading.
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  My own daughter has much suffered; she will get justice in due time.

  by TheFadingAlbatros in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  just learned today direct from my beloved daughter that she has been abused between 5 and 12 years old by 2 brothers (her own cousins) and 1 family "friend".

  she has attempted suicide a few days ago.

  luckily she is living and she is not physically injured.

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  Mauiboy said : "Take our love and find strength."

  I have never imagined before that life can be so cruel. With the passing days it's becoming more and more difficult for my wife and myself to live with the sadness of what has happened to my daughter.

  More than ever we need to take your love and find strength. Thank you.
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  My own daughter has much suffered; she will get justice in due time.

  by TheFadingAlbatros in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  just learned today direct from my beloved daughter that she has been abused between 5 and 12 years old by 2 brothers (her own cousins) and 1 family "friend".

  she has attempted suicide a few days ago.

  luckily she is living and she is not physically injured.

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  My daughter is a bit better today. I could see through her open eyes all the charm of her innocence. A real friend of my daughter, a young JW girl, is paying her a visit every day, not for indoctrinating her, but just to make her happy and make her smile thanks to her real love. Not so many JWs can succeed in doing it. But there are exceptions. Real love can be found among every organization.

  flipper said : "But don't be shocked if the JW or WT representatives TRY to hide these abuses from the authorities." I tell you now that they will not be able to do it, because the hardships I have already suffered in my life have made me understand what real justice is.

  Life is sometimes very cruel but nevertheless always a gift a God. Please do not forget it. Thanks for your nice comments.