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Feeling down as Christmas nears

by Quandry in

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i don't think i've started but one or two threads before.

i find myself sitting here listening to beautiful instrumental christmas music and feeling down.. you see, i was "in" for over thirty years.

thirty years with no christmas.

J-DUBBED

J-Dubbed-I love your name and welcome to the forum.

I went back and looked at some of your posts. The one about your son being mad about being lied to about Santa, etc. made me remember feeling the same. It's hard to remember back that far. When I became a JW I was 21 and now I am 63.

I do wish to tell you that initially my parents and I argued a lot. This really only made me dig my heels in further. You know how it is when you are young and on your "high horse." You mentioned in an earlier post that you were going to have coffee with your son. How did that go?

My best advice is to tell your son how proud of him you are (swallow hard) and try to get him to feel good about himself. Wish I could offer more than that. Just don't get him on the defensive

Very Spooky......Quandry, with your post it feels like looking at a "Carbon Copy" of what we went through and are still going through. Especially about the argueing and you diggin' in deeper.

He's been to my shop a couple times now for coffee with just me and it's been alright so far. I talk nice to him. I don't ask about or talk about his J-Dub Wife or the Cult Club. He even asked me to stop by his house to see a car project he is going to work on. I went to his garage and did give him a lot of praise on his new toy.

The problem is I want to see him, meet with him, and do my own "Love Bombing" but I do not want to be in the same room with his J-Dub Wife. How can this be accomplished without pissing him off? I didn't come out and tell him I don't want to see or talk to his bride, I just try to avoid it to ever happen. I want to tell him to come over with his little 2 year old girl but don't bring the wife.......Not sure how to handle that part. So far just trying 1 on 1 between him and I.

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Feeling down as Christmas nears

by Quandry in

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i don't think i've started but one or two threads before.

i find myself sitting here listening to beautiful instrumental christmas music and feeling down.. you see, i was "in" for over thirty years.

thirty years with no christmas.

J-DUBBED

Quandry that's exactly how I see what's left of my life. The wife and I having Christmas's without our Son. If and when he finally awakes........But we're gone.

I see my son in your shoes, exactly. Except I don't think I'll have another thirty years.....

What a waste.

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Dylan Boe - another dead miserable wretch

by Kent in

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victim hung on to faith .

by mike o'brien.

dylan boe held on to his faith until the end.. the 19-year-old was the only one of four young friends who wasn't immediately killed in a two-vehicle crash near melville, saturday.. like preston presiloski, adam anderson and elisha stasiuk, boe was a jehovah's witness.

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I was reinstated to lighten the pressure

So you woke up from the cult and then re-joined to please someone else? Were you always J-Dubbed or later on in life.

So don't you now believe it's a "Mind Controlling/ Cult"??

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christmas

by venting in

i feel bad that i was not able to let my kids enjoy christmas.

i think it has alot to do with how you were raised.

for some i know christmas was not that big a deal.

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You think she's doin' sign language to the King Dumb Hole??

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Why do ultra rich jehovahs witnesses get a free pass when it comes to being materialistic?

by hoser in

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i know a couple of jws in my town that are both very wealthy.

one has upscale retail stores and owns a property development company.

the other has a large service company and owns a lot of real estate.

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I have no problem with any JW being rich. But don't condemn riches and the good life for everyone else while simultaneously building your own empire.

I think what the J-Dubs don't see is they are all "Human" like everyone else. What goes with that is they are "Two Faced", "Brown Nosing", "Bag Licking", "Back Stabbers",..........................Just like anyone else.

Double standard is good for them but wrong for the "Worldly's"

Retards...

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This religion is about to be toast.

by kneehighmiah in

the governing body is preparing to take a major hit.

this recent watchtower shows it.

not the new understandings, but the article on marriage.

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In the picture the bridesmaid in the center is not smiling. I wonder why?

She slept with the groom............................

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This religion is about to be toast.

by kneehighmiah in

the governing body is preparing to take a major hit.

this recent watchtower shows it.

not the new understandings, but the article on marriage.

J-DUBBED

Are all the J-Dub Clubs together as one? Or is Canada and USA seperate from each other? When people talk about this "Cult" crumbling, does that mean all over the country?

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Active JW's and JW Lurkers- Especially JW Defenders and Believers: A Few Questions For You

by OnTheWayOut in

while there are not too many currently defending the watchtower in this discussion forum, it happens from time to time.

and quite often, there may be new people and lurkers reading these discussions.

i just wanted you to ponder these questions.

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We try and allow some leeway for sensitive topics but most of the time bad language is simply uncalled for.

Simon, I'm sorry then and I appologize for the language. I'll try control my self in the future........

Maybe Satan got the best of me.

It's just been like our son died without a funeral.

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Active JW's and JW Lurkers- Especially JW Defenders and Believers: A Few Questions For You

by OnTheWayOut in

while there are not too many currently defending the watchtower in this discussion forum, it happens from time to time.

and quite often, there may be new people and lurkers reading these discussions.

i just wanted you to ponder these questions.

J-DUBBED

I've known people that lived and died swearing this is the truth.

Yes and I know of one local woman in particular that lived right here in the city. She wanted out of the "Cult" so bad, she stood on train tracks with her back to the train and ended her life. Not only did she end her life but she really screwed up the train engineers that were piloting that train that day.

What worries us a lot is that one day our son may want out a similar way.

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Active JW's and JW Lurkers- Especially JW Defenders and Believers: A Few Questions For You

by OnTheWayOut in

while there are not too many currently defending the watchtower in this discussion forum, it happens from time to time.

and quite often, there may be new people and lurkers reading these discussions.

i just wanted you to ponder these questions.

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J-DUBBED: please take note of the forum guidelines if you want to continue posting here. We do not have to tolerate your abusive language?

You could have sent me a private message but that's fine.

Before I did any posting on this Forum I did some scrolling through previous posts just to see how "Language Sensitive" this Forum is. I've observed a lot of the older/regular posters on here pretty much use similar language. I maybe don't come across and relate exactly like most of you that "Were J-Dubs" because I never was one and never will be. We were just an everyday normal family that got totally screwed out of what was "Normal". It seems like the more digging into this "Mind Control Cult" just makes a person more aggrevated and out of control.

The J-Dubs have "Won" again. I'm at a huge loss, and no longer know where to continue.

However this is "Your House" so if you want to pick out certain people then do what you have to do.