I admit there was a certain tounge in cheek quality to my post but a part of me truly does susspect my wife is a lesbian, or at least bisexual. It would be great if true and she could admit it.
I differ from others on the emasculating effect of such an admision though. It wouldnt bother me at all. Why would her sexuality, what she finds arousing, reflect on me or my worth as a person or even a man? If i find women with large breasts arousing does that diminish the worth of smaller breasted women...? Of course not. Much of what we find attractive is hard wired. We simply have no control. If thats the maner shes or i or anyone else is hard wired, Thor bless you and be happy.
Just stop wasting my time.