You misread that situation totally john. He was already throwing jabs and setting up his strong right cross. Talking abojt how so many are leaving... Leading someone into his trap... When you spoke up he was drooling, waiting, for you (or someone) to step into that so he could slip that punch and throw his right cross. Rookie mistake. When you want to make them think you dont do it on their terms. That never works. You could have said:
yes many are leaving! Maybe they heard bro whatshiaface testimony before the RAC when he said that the gb dont speak for god!"
thats taking it to them in a way they don't expect. You will do better next time ;)