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  Need some advice

  by dura-luxe in

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  i knew this was coming.

  mom's been going back to the kingdom hall for about a year now, and i figured that, much like my father, i would have to cut off all contact with her at some point.

  it looks like now might be that time.

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  Frantic

  That was terrible to read, not really mature is she? I mean using caps? My goodness.
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  What Depresses You About Jehovah's Witnesses?

  by minimus in

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  many persons express why they are angry toward the jw religion but what gets you depressed, just thinking about it, regarding the witnesses?

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  Frantic

  Id say no contingency plan.
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  yo lads ?

  by cooky in

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  i was wondering as a jehovah witnesess aloud to have oral sex ?

  i cant rember if its a contious thing or ure totally not allowed ?

  reply plz :)

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  Frantic

  Great thread! Got a lot from it. Still reading the old avashai post, nearly done!
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  Being too picky>>>

  by Frantic in

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  arrrrgh, ive been labelled by many as too picky.

  this ever happen to you guys?> it is known that most of us humans will never meet the 'right' person for us, or perfect, if u will.

  for example, i might meet this good looking chick, and she wants to have sex immediately, and im not into that - first, takes away the mystery and second, whose to say she wouldnt do it the following night with some other stranger?

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  Frantic

  freelife, what a great response! I couldnt agree more. Personality comes out more when ur not trying ur ass off, very true - great advice. Thankyou.
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  Being too picky>>>

  by Frantic in

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  arrrrgh, ive been labelled by many as too picky.

  this ever happen to you guys?> it is known that most of us humans will never meet the 'right' person for us, or perfect, if u will.

  for example, i might meet this good looking chick, and she wants to have sex immediately, and im not into that - first, takes away the mystery and second, whose to say she wouldnt do it the following night with some other stranger?

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  Frantic

  Im glad ur happy with that response.
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  Being too picky>>>

  by Frantic in

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  arrrrgh, ive been labelled by many as too picky.

  this ever happen to you guys?> it is known that most of us humans will never meet the 'right' person for us, or perfect, if u will.

  for example, i might meet this good looking chick, and she wants to have sex immediately, and im not into that - first, takes away the mystery and second, whose to say she wouldnt do it the following night with some other stranger?

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  Frantic

  I cant tell you why I dont attract the right people for me. Location? probably, i do attract the younger girls, which is great, its just they aint legal, and well Im not going to jail...lol
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  Being too picky>>>

  by Frantic in

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  arrrrgh, ive been labelled by many as too picky.

  this ever happen to you guys?> it is known that most of us humans will never meet the 'right' person for us, or perfect, if u will.

  for example, i might meet this good looking chick, and she wants to have sex immediately, and im not into that - first, takes away the mystery and second, whose to say she wouldnt do it the following night with some other stranger?

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  Frantic

  french, u know the saying "opposites attract", lets just say I attract the ones that are easily obtainable. You've highlighted in red they'll just move right along to the next guy.
  
  In light of this, because I attract the opposite, they only want casual sex, something Im not after.
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  Being too picky>>>

  by Frantic in

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  arrrrgh, ive been labelled by many as too picky.

  this ever happen to you guys?> it is known that most of us humans will never meet the 'right' person for us, or perfect, if u will.

  for example, i might meet this good looking chick, and she wants to have sex immediately, and im not into that - first, takes away the mystery and second, whose to say she wouldnt do it the following night with some other stranger?

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  Frantic

  Xena, my 'stats' are fake - obviously - a mere exaggeration. Ur right, judgemental ppl do suck.
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  asleif, good point. There are a lot of decent women who are not virgins. However, everything worsens.....read into it what u will. Like with ur example of the 50's or even times before then.
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  No one wants used goods? Selfish in a way, yet, if this were the case globally, imagine how 'cleaner' the dating scene would be! Of course, you can try b4 you buy, which brings us up to date now....either prison or freedom - those are your choices. Of course, prison reffering to the modern day marriage, and freedom, well....a free for all. Although I wouldnt consider this an accurate analogy of marraige/dating nor a reflection of how I see marriage, it does however concrete the belief that its much easier to live life void of boundaries, rather than with.
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  As you said asleif, there are decent women who are not virgins, and by my definition "mean well". However, I believe some are confused. On first glance, one may appear 'sluttish' or better put, "easily attainable". After spending minutes, hours, even days with that person, perceptions begin to change, and well....she'll confide in me a little more - dropping the deceptive facade she had the night before, and most guys would see, underneath it all, lies a softer/warmer person. My first impression of this girl may of contributed to the fact that she was treated poorly by other men, thus developing her "outer shell".
  
  For me, Id prefer a girl who didnt get around. With that said, it brings a sense of security to the relationship because we can trust in ourselves something better isnt on offer elsewhere.
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  lonely christmas

  by maybesbabies in

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  ack!

  i can't stand it anymore!

  i've been broken up with my boyfriend for two weeks now, and this is my first x-mas alone in 3 years.

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  Frantic

  awwww I feel for you. Trying to let go, really sucks. Its easier for me to say, but, dwelling on the past gets u no where. I hope u find a new man quick, really I do. Turn to ur best friend for guidance, that not being ur now ex.
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  Being too picky>>>

  by Frantic in

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  arrrrgh, ive been labelled by many as too picky.

  this ever happen to you guys?> it is known that most of us humans will never meet the 'right' person for us, or perfect, if u will.

  for example, i might meet this good looking chick, and she wants to have sex immediately, and im not into that - first, takes away the mystery and second, whose to say she wouldnt do it the following night with some other stranger?

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  Frantic

  Islandboy99,
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  Australia guarantees safety, I know that. Chill out and stop being so judgemental??? Ive also been criticised for that, funny enough, I never say anything bad, its my body language and non-verbal language that gives the impression I 'ooze'.
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  "They are looking for the same thing you are."
  
  I know that, but they have a hard time expressing it.....well I would say.