Elsewheregood idea to tape it. I think of taking at least two recorders to the meeting. One to let them find and the others are backups. But please don't tell my friend - a lawyer - she'll say it is illegal (who cares?)
Terry i know i don't have to attend the JC, but i want to know, what the accusations are - even if i can't win their game ;-) Actually i already said they should give a written invitation with specific agenda - i am sure i'll never get it.
Simonthat's exactly what i gonna tell the elders: i would be free to tell anyone anything i want. For now we have been cautios with it. I am just preparing a mass-mail to all members of the congregation to let them know why i'm DF'ed - and that should (of course) be delivered BEFORE the anouncement. Let's have some fun! (even if it is NOT funny)