I went to a JW funeral Wednesday. It was for the dad of two good JW friends (at least back in the days) of mine. He was one of the nicest men I’ve ever known. It was in the congregation where I grew up and where my dad was
My mom asked for us to pick her up, so I thought that would be nice to have someone to walk in with. It was at a funeral home and not the KH. It was nice to see so many I hadn’t seen in a long time. I have to admit that this congregation truly has love and they all treated me lovely and the son of the deceased, who was a good friend of mine growing up, even told my husband that we ought to all get together sometime…..to pick on me (that’s the thing, we always pick on each other).
Anyway, back to the funeral…..when my dad passed away I was shocked that the funeral talk was very personable and that the Brother actually talked about my dad and his life and it wasn’t just a reading of his obituary and then an infomercial for JW’s. I really like that, especially for my husband’s sake and our non-JW family. Well, with this funeral, the first half the talk was similar…..the Brother talked about XXXXX’s childhood, his young days when he was a fire-jumper in , and then about some of the many practical jokes he’d pulled over the years. It had everyone in stitches and smiling because we all knew how funny he was.
Of course, then the JW infomercial came, but it wasn’t as bad as I remember all those I remember hearing growing up. Is this something new with JW’s now……to have more personable funeral talks? Or, is this just a personal choice by local JWs here? I remember when I was growing up how they basically just read the obituary and then went into the JW spiel and didn't focus much at all on the deceased and his life.