Old story just came to mind as I was browsing through the Watchtower's website (because I can't sleep and I truly find it entertaining) and read an article about abhoring that which is wicked. I was never a JW - my husband was until he was 20, and is now inactive. He told me a story that just infuriates me to no end, and I have to wonder if it is common.
Growing up, my husband knew a JW family with a few kids, and it was very apparent to everyone who knew them that the husband beat the wife frequently. Mysterious injuries, bruises, very subdued and frightened woman. No one called the cops. In fact, for years, no one did ANYTHING at all. Finally, my husband's mom went to the elders out of fear for the woman's life. The elders talked to the abusive husband and told him to knock it off. However, the elders also told him WHO turned him in -- so he in turn threatened to murder my husband's mom for doing so. She shut up after that. nothing was ever done - no reproof, no marking, no disfellowshipping, etc. The family stayed around another five years or so and then moved away.
That is horrible. So, you can get DF'ed for smoking, but not for beating your wife? There were plenty of marks on her to prove it. No one was allowed to contact the police to protect the woman, and even within the discipline of the organization, nothing was done. How is THAT "keeping the congregation clean"??? Makes me so mad.
sigh. It is scary how much this could happen.
SLM