Yes, most of the Witnesses I knew and still know, can't seem to heed the organization's admonition about gossipping. I got ill when my x- wife would sit at the dining room table with other miserable sisters drinking coffee and eating fatening treats while sharing everyone's business. Sometimes I also got sucked into the conversations because there isn't anything more intriguing, in "The Truth", than learning how Brother Elder was found out about his smoking and extra-marital affair for a number of years while serving the congregation in "good standing". (Hey! That brother was one of the elders on the committittie that DF'd me for smoking!)
I still know alot of Witnesses because while I have been DFd for a number of years, my old friends' kids are friends with my kids.
I have a brother who was once a pioneer and MS, but one day just dropped out and came out of the closet. Later he just seemed to drop off the face of the earth and nobody, not even family had heard from him in almost 10 years. One of my kids' friends told my kid recently to tell me that my brother was currently living 45 minutes up north serving as a MS in a local congregation. That kid's dad was good friends with my bro for many years so I viewed the information as reliable.
I spent alot of time calling all the KH's in that area looking for my bro and nobody had heard of him. Hmm . . .
Well, I received a call just two days ago, all out of the blue, from none other than that long lost brother who laughed when I told him the rumor I had heard, saying, "shit, serving as a MS anywhere is the last place you would have found me. I've been living in Colorado for the last 9 years".
My x-wife spread the rumor in her congregation that I was dying from . . . well it doesn't matter, but when I heard about it I laughed and chalked it up to "wishfull thinking" on her part.
Ciao,
H