her cousin in cali is a dub as well as her family. but they aren't like the typical family....uhm, its hard to say what they're like, but i was told that they're laid back..... i'm not going to cram anything down her throat. i told her that i support her decision if she wants to go to california, i just told her that KH's are the same everywhere....
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Question: Let it sit or take it and run?
by dustyb inok, i was talking to my g/f today and she said that she needed to get away for awhile, move to california with her cousin and stuff because she couldn't stand being at her house anymore.
whats even more is that she said that its getting to where she doesn't want to get up for service and she doesn't want to go to meetings anymore and she thinks she's becoming "spiritually weak".
so she wants to move to california to see if that'll "help" her in her current state of weakness.
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This is a special anniversary for me....
by neverthere init is 17 years now since i got clean from drugs!
i was big on uppers, hash and opium.
i quit cold turkey 17 years ago with no slips since!.
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dustyb
(In the counselor's voice from South Park) Drugs are bad! M'kay? g'job
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Question: Let it sit or take it and run?
by dustyb inok, i was talking to my g/f today and she said that she needed to get away for awhile, move to california with her cousin and stuff because she couldn't stand being at her house anymore.
whats even more is that she said that its getting to where she doesn't want to get up for service and she doesn't want to go to meetings anymore and she thinks she's becoming "spiritually weak".
so she wants to move to california to see if that'll "help" her in her current state of weakness.
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dustyb
Ok, i was talking to my g/f today and she said that she needed to get away for awhile, move to california with her cousin and stuff because she couldn't stand being at her house anymore. whats even more is that she said that its getting to where she doesn't want to get up for service and she doesn't want to go to meetings anymore and she thinks she's becoming "spiritually weak". So she wants to move to california to see if that'll "help" her in her current state of weakness. i told her all the congregations are the same as they are anywhere else....boring and controlling. so, here comes my question, should i take it and run with it, or let her see for herself that all the JW's are about is what she's experiencing here....?? Answers?
Edited:
btw, i'm supporting her in any decision she makes. i'm just trying to save her some time by going and wasting it at the kingdom hall in hopes that it'll help her "get spiritually strong" when its just the idea of the WTS burning out in her....
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the only reason she doesn't want to go to california is because of me. i'm the only reason she's staying (thats how miserable her life is at her house). no she doesn't get encouragement at the KH because they're hypocritical bastards...you don't put out and you get smashed into the ground....
Maybe i haven't explained it so well, so http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/66844/1.ashx is the link to the topic explaining it a bit better (or probably not..)
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dustyb...
by Tuesday inyou look familiar...you wouldn't by any chance have been in a congregation in upstate new york outside syracuse that once had a group of people from rhode island come up for "where the need was greater" and all stayed in a place called the fish inn lodge?
wow i can't get any more specific eh?
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dustyb
lol, jg is right, but its alright. no i'm not from upstate NY. i'm from missouri. and thats not my picture, i'm actually a lot better lookin (believe it or not!) heehehehe...
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Which One Lie Hurt You The Most About Jehovahs Witnesses?
by shamus inwhich one teaching really hurt you when you found out that it was not true?
my number one thing is finding out that the name "jehovah" was not in the bible like it was in the new world translation (tm).
christians did not call god "jehover" "jehovah" or by his first name, no more than you would call your father by his first name when you were a child.
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dustyb
lack of love and compassion. elders trying to pry into personal matters and everything else. its a mess.
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I'm about at the end of the string
by dustyb inlast nite pushed it for me.
my g/f's friend is blackmailing her, making her choose between me and her friend.
so i thought i'd let you guys know i won't be around that much right now because i'm starting to stand up and let everyone know that if they feel like controlling my g/f they'll have to go through me (which is going to be impossible).
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dustyb
oh thats fine =P i wasn't paying any attention...i'm dirty, my bad.
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Did you bring binoculars to assemblies or conventions?
by codeblue inwasn't it funny how many people brought binoculars to these conventions and only used them to check out sister wealthy's new outfit or that really cute guy that you had been eyeing in the corridor during breaktime?.
of course...we told everyone it was to see the "speaker"...(riiiiiiiiiiight!).
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dustyb
lol,i brought high power binoculars, but they weren't to look at the speakers if you catch my drift
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Lurkers! Is the WTS a Tax Cheat and Deadbeat?
by metatron ini have not seen any announcement from the watchtower stating that they have settled their tax liability with.
the nation of france.
they went thru the courts there - and lost.
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dustyb
i fully agree with metatron. for one, even though the JW's are the 3rd largest religion in france, look at it on the wide aspect....Britain, France, and Spain is like what, 70% Catholic?? then the rest are either atheist or protestant or something along those lines.
next look at how the WTS spends their money. they don't donate to charities or do anything to be tax exempt, whereas the other two main religions do (i assume the catholics stand up and donate to their communities and are kinda tied into the government). Then the Watchtower isn't like any other normal religion. The watchtower tries to invade personal free will by not allowing blood transfusions, extreme shunning and getting into the middle of family affairs, and also relationships.
So, as i see it, the WTS and any other organization that doesn't allow free will should be taxed to the fullest and should quit bitching about it....
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I'm about at the end of the string
by dustyb inlast nite pushed it for me.
my g/f's friend is blackmailing her, making her choose between me and her friend.
so i thought i'd let you guys know i won't be around that much right now because i'm starting to stand up and let everyone know that if they feel like controlling my g/f they'll have to go through me (which is going to be impossible).
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dustyb
i know, i'm doing this out of love, so she won't be controled by anybody, including me....
and yeru, i'll still be posting, i'm just in the "amazing" state =D
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I'm about at the end of the string
by dustyb inlast nite pushed it for me.
my g/f's friend is blackmailing her, making her choose between me and her friend.
so i thought i'd let you guys know i won't be around that much right now because i'm starting to stand up and let everyone know that if they feel like controlling my g/f they'll have to go through me (which is going to be impossible).
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dustyb
last nite pushed it for me. my g/f's friend is blackmailing her, making her choose between me and her friend. so i thought i'd let you guys know i won't be around that much right now because i'm starting to stand up and let everyone know that if they feel like controlling my g/f they'll have to go through me (which is going to be impossible). bah
EDITED: My old topic was something else, but i'm out of topic space, so i need to re-do this one =D
where has governing buzzards gone?? i kinda need them