Thanks Mulan
I agree. It is the worst experience in your life. I thin i did have a nervous breakdown. I suppose now he at least knows I had valid reasons and didnt just leave on a whim
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Telling my 85 year old dad the reasons why
by littlemike inmt father became a jw during the second world war .
he was conscientous objector before that.he is now 85 years old and i left jw 2 years ago.. on monday i went out with him and something he said just set me off.
in 15 minuted i told him about raymond franz, carl olof johnson, 607bce.
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Telling my 85 year old dad the reasons why
by littlemike inmt father became a jw during the second world war .
he was conscientous objector before that.he is now 85 years old and i left jw 2 years ago.. on monday i went out with him and something he said just set me off.
in 15 minuted i told him about raymond franz, carl olof johnson, 607bce.
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Mulan
Did I do right at least giving him some reasons.
Strangely he did not seem surprised.
The frightening thing is my dad was one of the first Witnesses in our City and there are now nearly a 1000 in the area yet I know he has massive problems with it.
However if he ever discovered for himself the truth about the truth he would just think he had wasted his entire life
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Telling my 85 year old dad the reasons why
by littlemike inmt father became a jw during the second world war .
he was conscientous objector before that.he is now 85 years old and i left jw 2 years ago.. on monday i went out with him and something he said just set me off.
in 15 minuted i told him about raymond franz, carl olof johnson, 607bce.
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Mt father became a JW during the second world war . He was conscientous objector before that.He is now 85 years old and i left JW 2 years ago.
On Monday I went out with him and something he said just set me off. In 15 minuted I told him about raymond Franz, Carl Olof johnson, 607BCE. The facts about 6000 years of mans history not being metnioned for 30 years etc.
I simply told him the truth about the truth. I did not plan to say it. I now feel guilty did I do the right thing? He questions many things himself but still thinks its the truth coz they are united, dont go to war etc.
Is it right to make an 85 year old doubt his faith that he instilled on his family?
What do you think?
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United Nations replies from the Society
by littlemike inmy friend who stopped going to meetings just over a year ago and has also split up from his wife sent a letter to the society regarding the un as this was one of the first major points to upset him .he wrote the letter in the vein that this had caused him great trauma to his faith, and that he required an honest explanation.. he has received what he thinks is a standard reply with no mention of his own circumtances or trauma.
can any body give me a thread where there are any other replies from the society so i can see if it is a standard reply.
mike.
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My friend who stopped going to meetings just over a year ago and has also split up from his wife sent a letter to the Society regarding the UN as this was one of the first major points to upset him .He wrote the letter in the vein that this had caused him great trauma to his faith, and that he required an honest explanation.
He has received what he thinks is a standard reply with no mention of his own circumtances or trauma.
Can any body give me a thread where there are any other replies from the Society so I can see if it is a standard reply
Thanks
Mike
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Anyone from uk?
by villastu inhi i'm new to this forum just interested to know how many brits are on this forum, as im from birmingham england myself, please say hi especially if your from the birmingham area.
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littlemike
Hi im from Hull. Hope you are ok. If you want to get in touch please reply
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amazing incident tonight
by littlemike injust heard a person who i have known all my life was announced tonight as voluntarily disaccoiating himself.
this is not true he hasnt been to meetings for a couple of years.
an elder went round recently to discuss a moral issue.
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just heard a person who i have known all my life was announced tonight as voluntarily disaccoiating himself. This is not true he hasnt been to meetings for a couple of years. An elder went round recently to discuss a moral issue. My fiend has rang the elder tonight and he has admitted that outside he had a witness in the car and his mobile phone was on and he heard all the conversation . How disgusting is that.
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an amazing incident tonight
by littlemike ini have just learnt form an ex jw friend of mine that one of our aquaintances who hasnt been to meetings for about 2 years has been announced as voluntarily dissassociating himself.
this is totally untrue an elder on his own went round to enquire about a moral issue with him and no more was heard no judicial or anything.
our aquaintance has rang the elder tonight after finding out about the announcement without ever being told it was going to happen.
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I have just learnt form an ex jw friend of mine that one of our aquaintances who hasnt been to meetings for about 2 years has been announced as voluntarily dissassociating himself. This is totally untrue an elder on his own went round to enquire about a moral issue with him and no more was heard no judicial or anything. Our aquaintance has rang the elder tonight after finding out about the announcement without ever being told it was going to happen. The elder has admitted that another brother was sat outside in the car and the elder had his mobile on during a conversation with the inactive brother and was listening to the whole conversation. In that conversation he categorically stated he did not want to dissaciate himself.
Yours disgusted, but i know its true
Mike
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Missing Old Friends
by littlemike ineven though you have left the faith and after reading crisis if conscience etc and you konw it is not the truth and would never go back do you still misss some of your friends in there.
i was in it for 42 years from birth and it still upsets me that my lifelong fiends have vanished.
we are making new friends, but i actually liked a lot of these people.
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Purza. Thats what I want my best friend to do but still to strong to hear or read any serious criticism even though she moans at everything in the 'truth'.
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Missing Old Friends
by littlemike ineven though you have left the faith and after reading crisis if conscience etc and you konw it is not the truth and would never go back do you still misss some of your friends in there.
i was in it for 42 years from birth and it still upsets me that my lifelong fiends have vanished.
we are making new friends, but i actually liked a lot of these people.
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Thanks Purza.
All the best on your engagement. Is your best friend a little ditant now though
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Missing Old Friends
by littlemike ineven though you have left the faith and after reading crisis if conscience etc and you konw it is not the truth and would never go back do you still misss some of your friends in there.
i was in it for 42 years from birth and it still upsets me that my lifelong fiends have vanished.
we are making new friends, but i actually liked a lot of these people.
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Hi Fleaman. I agree. I work in an office on the docks and today a group of Witnesses were visiting the ships. One person was a relative of mine and i must admit I simply thought what a waste of time.
Then your brain goes in reverse and you think well they could be doing worse or at least they are teaching about God.