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  well folks im out

  by koolkeithfl in

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  i just got dfed last night.

  i want to thank you all in advance for helping me through this.

  i wanted to fade but my wife insisted that i wasn't gonna dfed.

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  koolkeithfl

  I just got dfed last night. i want to thank you all in advance for helping me through this. i wanted to fade but my wife insisted that i wasn't gonna dfed. oh well i told the elders after i was dfed "thank you because i don't have to fake this anymore".
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  how about you?

  by teejay in

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  1. scrambled or sunny-side up?

  "early bird" or "night owl"?

  3. be polite or honest?

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  1. Scrambled or sunny-side up? scrambled 2. "Early bird" or "night owl"? night owl
  3. Be polite or honest? Both 4. Do you prefer blonds, brunettes or redheads? no preference
  5. Coffee or tea? coffee
  6. Introvert or extrovert?Introvert 7. PJs or nekkid?nekkid 8. Comedies or dramas? comedies 9. Superman or Batman? batman 10. Chocolate or vanilla? chocolate
  11. Dogs or cats? dogs
  12. Penthouse in the center of a big city or ranch house out in the country? Penthouse 13. On top or on bottom? Both 14. Is there a kiss you'll always remember? What's her/his name? What year was it? Where were you? What were they wearing? 15. Color photos or black & white? Color
  16. Mickey Mouse or Mighty Mouse? Mickey Mouse
  17. Cynical or idealistic? Idealistic
  18. Religious or anti? anti 19. Summer or winter? Summer 20. Liberal or Conservative? liberal 21. Quiet night at home or out on the town? home
  22. Beer or wine? beer 23. Optimistic or pessimistic? optimistic
  24. Traditional furniture or Contemporary? contemporary
  25. Are you a facts or an ideas person? facts
  26. If you were an animal, what would you be? lion 27. If you were a musical instrument, what would you be? drums or guitar 28. Home in the mountains or on the beach? Beach 29. T-shirt and jeans or tuxedo? tshirt and jeans 30. Face-to-face or spoon? spoon
  31. Hand wash the dishes or use the dishwasher? Both: I wash them by hand then dishwash 32. Favorite color? black
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  "we're just going to be dead" Dec. 1 2004 Watchtower

  by metatron in

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  the latest watchtower carries a warning (pg16).

  " what if there are some in the christian congregation who live double lives?

  .... "one day one of them said to me:'it doesn't matter what we do now because when the.

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  i'll take option b.
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  Hindsight is 20/20

  by Capn Jack in

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  i have been watching this website for a while and havent posted much, but i have gained alot of insight into my own head and life.

  i was born jw and pioneered and all that good stuff, didnt get out until i was 23. didnt know what to do so i started drinking and using all sorts of illegal substances.

  i would talk all night to people about the 'dubs and how f****d up they are, probably bored alot of people.

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  It doesn't matter if they think I'm going to "die at Armageddon" because I know I'm not. Sure I'll die eventually, but so does everyone else.

  my thoughts exactly
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  help please

  by koolkeithfl in

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  i cheated on my wife and i told her what happend and she forgave me......but she told my sister #1(baptized but doesn't go to meetings) what happend.

  then sister #1 proceeded to tell sister #2 (die hard witness).

  now sis #2 is giving me till wed to turn myself in or she is going to do it.

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  thank you all for your input. I had to have someone to talk to about my problem besides my therapist who doesn't understand jw's.
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  help please

  by koolkeithfl in

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  i cheated on my wife and i told her what happend and she forgave me......but she told my sister #1(baptized but doesn't go to meetings) what happend.

  then sister #1 proceeded to tell sister #2 (die hard witness).

  now sis #2 is giving me till wed to turn myself in or she is going to do it.

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  koolkeithfl

  so you should stay in a marriage just because it makes someone else happy but you miserable?
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  help please

  by koolkeithfl in

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  i cheated on my wife and i told her what happend and she forgave me......but she told my sister #1(baptized but doesn't go to meetings) what happend.

  then sister #1 proceeded to tell sister #2 (die hard witness).

  now sis #2 is giving me till wed to turn myself in or she is going to do it.

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  of course i feel bad about it. i should have just told her that i didn't want to be married anymore. looking back i should have done it that way....but i am a human being and we don't always make the right decisions.
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  help please

  by koolkeithfl in

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  i cheated on my wife and i told her what happend and she forgave me......but she told my sister #1(baptized but doesn't go to meetings) what happend.

  then sister #1 proceeded to tell sister #2 (die hard witness).

  now sis #2 is giving me till wed to turn myself in or she is going to do it.

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  i know that i would have been hurt too. I did it because i saw no other way to end my marriage. you guys are gonna make me feel bad about this one too i can feel it. i told my wife because i thought she would leave. I was married at 20 years old and this was the only women i had ever dated. I was told by my mother in law that no "brother" would want my wife after she had had sex with me. everyone was saying get married and i crumbled under the pressure. i was also afraid that no one would want me either. now i want out of my marriage and the jw religion. this is no excuse for what i did. it was the only solution i saw. cheat and get a divorce. and i don't need people judging me for wanting to end my marriage.
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  help please

  by koolkeithfl in

  1. jw
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  i cheated on my wife and i told her what happend and she forgave me......but she told my sister #1(baptized but doesn't go to meetings) what happend.

  then sister #1 proceeded to tell sister #2 (die hard witness).

  now sis #2 is giving me till wed to turn myself in or she is going to do it.

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  koolkeithfl

  yes i deserve it. and im glad you wouldn't have forgiven me.
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  help please

  by koolkeithfl in

  1. jw
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  i cheated on my wife and i told her what happend and she forgave me......but she told my sister #1(baptized but doesn't go to meetings) what happend.

  then sister #1 proceeded to tell sister #2 (die hard witness).

  now sis #2 is giving me till wed to turn myself in or she is going to do it.

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  koolkeithfl

  to be totally honest this past sunday i was at the meeting thinking that i needed to get back. and then on monday i got the call. it just reminded me of how messed up this religion really is.

  thanks for all your help