Hi Britboy
Sorry she is giving you such a hard time.
She sounds like my fanantical sister - a top of the class little dub when it suits her.
Recently it was my grandmother's 80th birthday, she has never been a JW and so the non JW family had arranged a party for her and my sister decided that, on this occasion, she would make an exeption and attend. That was until she found out that our df'd brother was going to be going. She then threw a huge tantrum (which temporarily resulted in her disowning her parents for a week or so, because somehow this was their fault) about how she could not possibly be in the same room as a df'd person (this is her brother she is talking about!) and that he should be staying away because she was going. This disappointed my gran as she was really pleased that everyone would be coming. What she failed to see was that she had agreed to go to a birthday party, which was already against her religion!